bripat9643
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Talk about hyperbole
I grew up poor and had it thrown in my face on almost a daily basis in one way or the other, but that is not the point.
Let's see--there is my nephew who quit football in the middle of his third practice because he didn't get to be the hero like he did on playstation. There is another nephew that quit his first job--when he was 23--after a day because he didn't like people telling him what to do. While I would love to be able to say, "Hey, it is just my family", I cannot. There is a whole generation of people, going on two generations, who largely have been so coddled that they are increasingly incapable of contributing anything to society other than babies and the aroma of pot.
I fail to see how I used any hyperbole in my post.
But the examples you used do illustrate why at least some so-called inequity exists. The kid who sticks it out in football practice very well may be able to be a 'hero' on down the road. The person who suffers through the tedious, yucky, sometimes terribly boring 'Mcjobs" are more likely the ones who will be attractive to employers for better jobs that lead to still better ones, etc. And if that isn't in the cards, they still benefit from the experience.
The coddling you mention I think is in the soothing and excusing those who don't achieve and telling them it isn't their fault--that they are disadvantaged and oppressed and they are due compensation for the unfairness of the system and others owe them a living or whatever.
Again there is nothing 'unfair' about the kids who attended the rich man's private school. Somebody--their parents or grandparents--earned them the privilege of a first class education. Nobody should look down on those who have achieved and are able to bless their children. I certainly was able to provide more opportunities for my children than my parents were able (or willing) to provide for me. But I also knew the importance of teaching my children to develop a work ethic, to expect to work for what they got, and to understand that nobody owed them anything--to be grateful for gifts and not count on them to get by.
And those poor kids shouldn't be told that they deserve what the rich kids have. They should be told again and again that the power for their own destiny is in their hands. Even if they don't get dealt a great hand, their goal must be to try for a better one, and then a better one. And nobody knows what he/she can achieve until s/he tries.
No. We do know. There is more opportunity for some than others.....and this is, for most people, THE primary factor that determines how far up the ladder a person is going to climb.
I believe that many "conservatives" are drawn to the sort of bile that Sowell emits because they have a need to believe that they are high achievers and have worked harder or made better choices than others. It is insecurity more than anything else. By denying that they have had more opportunity....by chance or by station at birth...than those who they view as underachievers.....they get to take that "holier than thou" POV that is so common among them.
In general....meaning for the vast majority of people....where and to whom one is born has more to do with ones success in life than any work ethic or innovative spirit.
It's interesting that you refer to the simple "truth" as bile, that you think the idea that people can achieve success through hard work and perseverance is somehow distasteful. Somehow you find the idea that people are doomed to suffer under whatever economic circumstances they were born into more appealing.
That's not exactly an admirable attitude for someone to hold.