I went to a different restaurant today. IÂ’ve been going there about 12 years. TheyÂ’ve always allowed smoking. After my meal, I lit up a cigarette. Paige (my waitress) came over and told me I couldnÂ’t smoke. I handed her my glass and asked her for more water. I told her IÂ’d take care of it when she got back. She returned quickly and our conversation went like this:
Paige: You canÂ’t smoke, they passed a new law.
Me: I donÂ’t agree with the law, do you?
Paige: No, but you canÂ’t smoke.
Me: Do you know who Rosa Parks was?
Paige: Yes.
Me: Consider this my civil disobedience.
Paige: ButÂ…
Me: If any other customers ask me to put out my cigarette, I will.
Paige: YouÂ….
Me: Just ask them, if they want me to, I will.
Paige looked around and then announced, “Will somebody please ask this gentleman to put out his cigarette?”
Of the almost dozen customers in earshot, none of them asked me. In fact, the comments were things like, “doesn’t bother me”, “no”, “let him smoke”. One lady asked, “Did she bring you an ashtray?, she wouldn’t bring me one”. I felt sort of bad for putting Paige in that position. She looked at me and said, ‘Well, I can’t just yank it from your hand”. She walked off looking exasperated. I told the lady that asked about the ashtray that no, she hadn’t brought me one. Then I re-iterated to the people that I would put out the cigarette if it bothered anybody. Nobody asked me to, and some told me to stand up for what I believed.
The waitress was talking to the manager and he looked at me. When she walked away from him, he gave me a thumbs up. I noticed a lady at the opposite end of the restaurant glaring at me. IÂ’m guessing because I was smoking. I took my last puff and winked at her. I put out the cigarette and handed Paige a $20 dollar bill for my $8 dollar dinner and told her the change was her tip for putting up with my antics.
As I put on my coat and hat to leave, the lady that had asked about the ashtray started clapping. Then others started clapping to. I tipped my hat to the folks and told them to have a great day as I walked out with an applause.
I donÂ’t know how long I can get away with this before I get arrested or punched in the nose. I wonÂ’t smoke in a restaurant that was non-smoking before the law was passed, as that was the ownerÂ’s decision. But IÂ’m going to be difficult where smoking used to be allowed.