Yeah, because the UK, or any other nation, has never done that.
You flipped off the EU, and now you are complaining because they want you out even more than you want to leave?
This is how it works dude. The EU has been fighting to keep unity for several years now, and you just slapped them in the face with the biggest 'screw you' vote since the EU was formed.
Now you expect them to be happy and friendly as you leave? I'm not sure what you expected the reaction of the EU to be after spending 5 years trying to hold the EU together, only to have the UK suddenly and abruptly vacate, but your expectations are unreasonable.
Not don't get me wrong. I don't know if leaving the EU was good or bad in the long run. But spare me this complaining and moaning about how the EU is taking this badly. You should have known from the very start, that leaving the EU would have consequences, and that you were going to make a ton of people extremely upset. You made that choice, so buck up and take it, and stop whining about it.
Unity is wanted because
power is wanted. It's all about power. The greater the act of subsuming a nation to your will, the greater the power exercised.
The EU is all about remolding in order to consolidate power.
The EEC was its forerunner .. existing for the purpose of facilitating trade, and simply that. It's mutated out of all recognition to become a power-hungry colossus.
The UK has a right to self-determination. Any of the EU's Member States do, and I wish them every success in gaining it. Yet ... to what extent does Brussels rule them ?
It's reckoned that it'll take around TEN years to 'de-louse' the British set of laws to remove all EU interference in our affairs, courtesy of them all !!!
In some ways, you are correct. But then, there is always a trade off. We in Ohio, could declare independence from the Union as well. And then we could make choices about immigrants, and taxes, and federal laws, and all sorts of things.
But then would we have the economic power that comes with being part of the union? Answer? Not even close.
There are always trades off in joining a group. If I join a football time, I'm going to have to show up for practice.... every practice. I'll have to deal with the freaks on the team, all of them. I'll have to wear a uniform. The trade off is that I'll end up traveling around all over the world, go to major sporting events with millions of people watching, and maybe win some trophies.
And is there consolidation of power? Sure. I have to do what the coach says too. He's got authority over me.
Does Brussels have some authority over the UK while you are part of the Union? Yes. But by any reasonable measure, the UK has had more weight on the EU, than the EU had on the UK. Historically the EU has given many concessions to the UK.
That said, it's likely that leaving the EU will isolate England, and possibly mark the end of the United Kingdom. Scotland has already signaled a possible referendum of their own to leave the UK, to stay in the EU. North Ireland has said a willingness to consider reunification with greater Ireland, to stay in the EU.
That would leave Wales, which is a spec of dust on the map, and is part of England mainland. In short, England will be an island again.
Moreover, while keeping out the immigrants seems like a bright idea in the short term, in the long run you have ruined England.
The population replacement rate is 2.1 children per woman. Today in England, the fertility rate is 1.8. And it has been below the replacement rate for many years now. The only reason England hasn't seen the dangerous economic stagnation that follows population decline that Japan has seen for decades now, is because of immigration, the exact thing you are cutting off.
So now, we're seeing the early signs of capital flight, and the next will be population flight. Immigration to the UK will be replaced with emigration from the UK.
Nothing is set in stone of course. All of this could be reversed. Only time will tell.