I used to work in an office with lots of women in a liberal setting (government). I was a handsome dude, and anyone in the same circumstance can attest to this.
If a man says/does something it's called sexual harassment. If a woman does it's called fair game. I was once promoted "because you have a nice ass". My most recent supervisor was constantly trying to get into my shorts. The last instance being on the way back to the office from a meeting she said "there's Adam and Eve, you want to stop?". Did I file claims? Of course not, but you can bet your ass a woman would most likely do just that, because they play the victim role.
Sexual harassment happens but it some cases of bogus claims or overacting it is also used as a means to rid pest and threats to party agendites, etc., people who have voices that other people hear or listen to and dissenters. Those type things can ruin people in any case and are stress makers.
I made one formal complaint when a state employee grabbed me from behind. He was definitely a creep and had harassed the other women in that district. I had also pissed off a big wig that was based in that area when I told him I wasn't interested and helped another young woman get away from him. I was harassed more and blacklisted for my efforts. Years later, once no longer blacklisted back contracting again, I was starting a new contract and an incident happen
. A state employee cornered me to show me his nude photographs. Blocked I had no where to get away from him and I felt threaten. Later I considered the incident with concerned about my female employees on that job I determine this ass could be a threat to them, so I made an informal complaint. With several people pissed in years to come bogus charges would be filed against my teenage son and then me. They were ridiculous but it did cost a small fortune to defend. Come to find out later I also had a secretary/book-keeper that had ingeniously figured out a way she could embezzle almost thirty grand. Her hubby golfed with the judge they used to sign the erroneous arrest warrants.
^^^ due to all of that I go on the side of caution when people start making claims and politics or money is involved.
