Bonziesque Question. When did you lose your virginity?

It was a long time before I knew what..um...that feeling would lead up to. I met someone else while he was at sea, and the new guy made me see fireworks. Oh, THAT'S what it's supposed to feel like! Him, I married. :lol:
 
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I was scared to death. He had to tell me what to do and how to do it. He also murmured in my ear it would hurt...at first. Hell, it hurt until he was done! And the mess? We went to his parents house afterwards so he could introduce me to them as the girl he was going to marry. I stood there...ever so self concious wondering if I got all the damn blood off me good enough. This took place in the middle of a grape vineyard...front seat of his car.
To this day, I look at grape vineyards as I drive by them and think of a handsome man in his sailor uniform. We were not to be, after all. But it was not a horrid experience, that first time. I'm glad he made it home alive, too.
Why, was it that bad?
 
I like remembering this time. I hope y'all do too. Pleasant memories.
 
I was scared to death. He had to tell me what to do and how to do it. He also murmured in my ear it would hurt...at first. Hell, it hurt until he was done! And the mess? We went to his parents house afterwards so he could introduce me to them as the girl he was going to marry. I stood there...ever so self concious wondering if I got all the damn blood off me good enough. This took place in the middle of a grape vineyard...front seat of his car.
To this day, I look at grape vineyards as I drive by them and think of a handsome man in his sailor uniform. We were not to be, after all. But it was not a horrid experience, that first time. I'm glad he made it home alive, too.
Why, was it that bad?
He was in Nam, SJ. My first experience in losing my virginity was not bad...but it was not good either. It was scarey.
 
I was scared to death. He had to tell me what to do and how to do it. He also murmured in my ear it would hurt...at first. Hell, it hurt until he was done! And the mess? We went to his parents house afterwards so he could introduce me to them as the girl he was going to marry. I stood there...ever so self concious wondering if I got all the damn blood off me good enough. This took place in the middle of a grape vineyard...front seat of his car.
To this day, I look at grape vineyards as I drive by them and think of a handsome man in his sailor uniform. We were not to be, after all. But it was not a horrid experience, that first time. I'm glad he made it home alive, too.
Why, was it that bad?
He was in Nam, SJ. My first experience in losing my virginity was not bad...but it was not good either. It was scarey.
I know. I was joking.
 
18 years old- we were both virgins- and it was really sweet and nice- lots of folks have some rather bad first experiences- but we didn't.
The first time wasn't great sex- but it was a great first time. Really don't think I could have asked for a better first time.
 
I guess I'm the oldest so far. 20.

My mother scared me to death about losing it .... and I admit I was a bit scared myself - I actually had 3 boyfriends that stuck around for quite a long time BEFORE - but the guy I met in college...... not sure why I decided to give in then, but we did it on the floor of his dad's retail store (after hours....we were closing up....)

Was with him for nearly 3 years. Kept in touch with him fairly regularly up until I got married.

He may have been "the one" (that got away.....)
 
Guys can be virgins? So far no bleeding for me.
 
I wanted to be the oldest but Trin beat me :(
 
I wanted to be the oldest but Trin beat me :(
I didn't even date til I was in my 20's and married the first man I dated. I was told girls who did that kind of thing were soiled and no one would marry them. I didn't dare ruin any chances I might have
 
It seems like the X Generation tended to lose their virginity faster than the Millennials.

I'm wondering if it has anything to do with fashion. When I was a teenager all the hot girls wore short-shorts halter-tops and miniskirts.
 
Kids today have more things to obsess and be addicted to.

Sex is over-rated
 
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