To me, marriage is what my wife and I make of it.
I know one guy that cheats on his wife. Is his marriage, in my eyes, as sacred as mine? No. Does it affect mine? No.
You want to be against gay marriage because it is your religious belief that gay sex is a sin and therefore gay marriage will promote a sin...I get it. I am fine with it. You have the right to wish to protect your religious view of homosexuality.
But to say that someone elses marriage will result in the destruction of the sacredness of marriage...in particular...your marriage....I just don't see it.
Sorry.
What if someone thinks the point of government marriage is encouraging children be born in wedlock? We only have so much tax money, why spend a bunch of it having gay marriage?
If that were the case, there would be something, somewhere in the marriage licensing that mentions children. And there would be something, somewhere in our other laws discouraging out-of-wedlock births.
Why?
And seriously, you don't think children were the primary justification for government marriage? Seriously?
Nope. I believe it was a mis step by government and initially used for census reasons.
Whether it was a misstep is not relevant to the question as to the intent. For you to say marriage was not driven by children is to say you know nothing about history and you're probably just playing word games because I know you and you're too smart to believe that nonsense.
Here's what I would give you. While the people thought it was about children, if you want to argue for politicians it wasn't just about that then I could go along with it to a degree. Politicians like to divide the people and pit them against each other. The last thing they want is a flat, even treatment of the people. They garner power by favoring one group over another, not by treating everyone fairly.
Government marriage is not necessary and government should treat it's citizens the same, but anything you read about the history of marriage starts with children. You know that, be serious