Sexuality is in within the person him/herself, and there is no parade needed to make your voice sound.
The gay pride parades are the need for their voices to be heard. That's the point. It is a response to those who wish to silence them, make them invisible, make them go away. Those like you and Penny.
And let me give a desperate attempt to get this thread back on track -- its no different than those who wish to silence the Jewish people. Its no different than those who want the Jewish people to be made invisible, to be made to go away, to limit what they are permitted to be in the world or to show the world.
Its the same, foundational ideology that that which is different must be turned away and rejected. And we (humanity) are doing it with words just as surely as we are doing it with guns. This is no way to repair the world.
On gay parades, let's just agree not to agree. I am not trying to silence them in anyway, I just don't think they need festivals to be accepted. But that's my own opinion.
I find it nearly offensive that you believe that just because I think those parades are not necessarily a must, that I'm against gays and try to silence them.
A few years back, there was a mass shooting in a gay club in Tel Aviv, called -The Bar No'ar. hearing about this attack took me back to that night. As far as we know, it could have been a terror attack as much as a hate crime, that murder was never solved and the shooter is still roaming free.
One of the victims was a young man named Nir Katz. A beautiful, innocent, sensitive boy. I knew him. He done nothing wrong to anyone, his family had known death and destruction before, and his death was a sudden blow, because suddenly recognizing a name you knew and putting a face to it before other people do, is never easy.
Do I think it was by anyway his fault, because he was gay? of course not. Do I anyway feel he was to be ashamed, or kept quiet? not even close. I will never try to imply in anyway that gays don't have free rights to love and lead normal lives in happiness, it's not what I'm saying and it's not what I'm thinking. But I have also seen some of the Tel Aviv gay parades they have here, and some pictures can be described as disturbing. There is no need to walk half naked in the street to be accepted.
I think I have the right to think that without being painted as dark or homophobic.
So let us put things in proportion.
Sorry, but it was important for me to clarify things.
and I will go back to topic next time.