Okay, so let me see if I get this right. You aren't religious, but you think that taking something from the government is losing your soul...
I am Spiritual, not Religious. There is a major difference. My beliefs are based around the Morals and Values that I believe humanity was intended to engender and live by in this life, in order to earn the right to move on to a better life after death.
Among those Morals and Values are the ideals of Self-Reliance and Personal Responsibility. If I can't do for myself and I don't have friends or family who will do what's necessary to keep me alive, then my value to Society has been exceeded and it's time for me to leave Society, permanently.