"Baby It's Cold Outside"... A charming tune about chivalry and male/female dynamics, and how feminism hates it

[initforme]

You grabbed my attention, as I am one also.. and it seems you want to make a hot take...

I'm not sure what you're basing this on, but there are multiple problems in the male-female dynamic today....

1. Men and women report higher happiness when married than those who stay single
2. Women report much higher happiness when having children than those who are single and have none
3. There is a rush of women in their late 30's and above who are depressed because they thought they could have it all.. they thought they could have lots of sex and be a career-driven masculine boss babe throughout their 20's and early 30's... and then when they have lots of money and are done with their fun, the strapping, rich, charming, perfect guy would be there waiting to scoop them up. That's not how it works. The charming, strapping, perfect guy tends to date and marry younger, more feminine women who will cater to them.
4. This makes these masculine, boss babe women mad and spiteful. On one side they still believe they deserve a top tier man when they are like 39 or 44 with likely a child or 2... and on the other side they have all the support-group co-single hype women to tell them to never settle and keep looking for that guy. The data is in, when both men and women were asked if they would take 80% of what they were looking for in a partner, men were extremely likely to say yes, and women were extremely likely to say no.

Angry, spiteful, bitter, masculine single women are keeping other women single by convincing them that happiness can be found by lots of random sex and the single life. It turns out, women don't find happiness in that like men sometimes can, but it's generally not good for either.

You're way out to lunch on this topic.

I will maintain that people getting married in their 20s is bad for society and leads to higher rates of divorce. Waiting until financially sound is a wiser option. 2 young people starting from scratch is a recipe for a system that cannot work.

 

[Andrew_Jackson_FTW]

I had a discussion at work today, and it simply baffles me to hear people misinterpret this song as they do.

Two things seem to bother overly-sensitive woke feminists about this song
1. A man is trying to pursue a woman
2. She says "what's in this drink"

I'll address them:

1. Men should desire women, try to whoo them, and find delight in doing so. It's a cross-cultural and historic staple of human civilization and behavioral psychology. Men chasing women is a good thing... only feminism has tried to shut it down, demonize it, and fight to try to end it.. making women generally increasingly more single, more unhappy, and buying more cats.

2. Fear-mongering, "rape culture" feminists squawk that the question "What's in this drink" means if she's asking if she's being roofied or something. It's hyperbolic nonsense. The question is asking if it's alcoholic or not.. but this does bring up a further feminist anti-male-seeking-female stance that if a man tries to give women drinks they are manipulating and some sort of predator. In fact, women are grown adults who can handle themselves, they aren't children. If they are comfortable with a charming man, they'll have drinks with him.

The angriest people around are often liberal middle-aged women. Drinking their wine all the time. They hate the strong traditional, masculine man.


Here in Cambodia the women are beautiful, they are wonderful, kindhearted, good people. The entire population is great… very family oriented and traditional. Which the radical left hates.

And I have nothing against the strong female business owner.

But obviously, modern day, radical feminism is a problem. Manifests itself in different ways. it seeks to feminize young men to make them weak. To make them support BLM, to make them believe that white people are racist. And to your point to make them believe that the traditions of America, like our old Christmas movies and literature or music is all somehow evil or something like that.


One of the most dangerous things about radical feminism is how it teaches is young people that it’s OK to be alone and use drugs all the time. To be sitting alone by yourself in an apartment all day, doing nothing just play video games, be happy and smoke your marijuana.

 

[Andrew_Jackson_FTW]

This is also another manifestation of radical feminism. Celebrating a woman like this who sleeps with 100 men in one day on only fans. And this woman’s mom is her manager. That is really the demise of western Christian culture.

OnlyFans Influencer Lily Phillips Breaks Down in Tears After Sleeping With 100 Men in One Day - E! Online

OnlyFans model Lily Phillips broke down in tears while detailing how she had sex with 100 men: "I don't know if I'd recommend it."

www.eonline.com

She according to radical feminism is “liberated”….Lily next plans to try and break some kind of a record and have sex with 1000 men in one day. That high body count is a huge turn off for high value men.

 

[Andrew_Jackson_FTW]

You grabbed my attention, as I am one also.. and it seems you want to make a hot take...

I'm not sure what you're basing this on, but there are multiple problems in the male-female dynamic today....

1. Men and women report higher happiness when married than those who stay single
2. Women report much higher happiness when having children than those who are single and have none
3. There is a rush of women in their late 30's and above who are depressed because they thought they could have it all.. they thought they could have lots of sex and be a career-driven masculine boss babe throughout their 20's and early 30's... and then when they have lots of money and are done with their fun, the strapping, rich, charming, perfect guy would be there waiting to scoop them up. That's not how it works. The charming, strapping, perfect guy tends to date and marry younger, more feminine women who will cater to them.
4. This makes these masculine, boss babe women mad and spiteful. On one side they still believe they deserve a top tier man when they are like 39 or 44 with likely a child or 2... and on the other side they have all the support-group co-single hype women to tell them to never settle and keep looking for that guy. The data is in, when both men and women were asked if they would take 80% of what they were looking for in a partner, men were extremely likely to say yes, and women were extremely likely to say no.

Angry, spiteful, bitter, masculine single women are keeping other women single by convincing them that happiness can be found by lots of random sex and the single life. It turns out, women don't find happiness in that like men sometimes can, but it's generally not good for either.

You're way out to lunch on this topic.

This is perfectly said, my friend. It is really the finest description of the insanity of the radical left.

Our friend initforme I believe claims to be in his 90s. I don’t know if that’s true though. Or maybe it’s a different poster I don’t know. But either way he constantly repeats himself the same points and he does not respond to the counterpoint like you or others have provided to him many times showing the actual danger, both mentally and physically when it comes to the high number of single young people in America. Studies back up the statement that waiting to get married is not beneficial…yet He keeps repeating himself again and again and again.

The culture we have in America today promotes the type of filth of a woman going on only fans banging 100 men and then being celebrated for it. She is somehow “liberated”… those women will not be able to attract a high value man. Their body count is way too high.

My opinion women are not the problem in America or even the west . The problem are weak feminized radical left-wing white men. The Justin Trudeau types or those white men that look up to Joy Reid. The ones who believe Harris lost because the nation is “not ready for a female black president” even though Harris is Indian.

During the Biden administration, I don’t think there were many visible men for younger men to look up to. Because a lot of those masculine men were canceled on social media. I hope that this trend is reversed by the Trump administration. It seems like it is with record numbers of young white and black men supporting Trump.

 

[candycorn]

I had a discussion at work today, and it simply baffles me to hear people misinterpret this song as they do.

Two things seem to bother overly-sensitive woke feminists about this song
1. A man is trying to pursue a woman
2. She says "what's in this drink"

I'll address them:

1. Men should desire women, try to whoo them, and find delight in doing so. It's a cross-cultural and historic staple of human civilization and behavioral psychology. Men chasing women is a good thing... only feminism has tried to shut it down, demonize it, and fight to try to end it.. making women generally increasingly more single, more unhappy, and buying more cats.

2. Fear-mongering, "rape culture" feminists squawk that the question "What's in this drink" means if she's asking if she's being roofied or something. It's hyperbolic nonsense. The question is asking if it's alcoholic or not.. but this does bring up a further feminist anti-male-seeking-female stance that if a man tries to give women drinks they are manipulating and some sort of predator. In fact, women are grown adults who can handle themselves, they aren't children. If they are comfortable with a charming man, they'll have drinks with him.

Yeah..its the MAGA mindset in a nutshell...."if she tried to leave, spike her drink".

Merry Christmas.

 

[JohnDB]

I had a discussion at work today, and it simply baffles me to hear people misinterpret this song as they do.

Two things seem to bother overly-sensitive woke feminists about this song
1. A man is trying to pursue a woman
2. She says "what's in this drink"

I'll address them:

1. Men should desire women, try to whoo them, and find delight in doing so. It's a cross-cultural and historic staple of human civilization and behavioral psychology. Men chasing women is a good thing... only feminism has tried to shut it down, demonize it, and fight to try to end it.. making women generally increasingly more single, more unhappy, and buying more cats.

2. Fear-mongering, "rape culture" feminists squawk that the question "What's in this drink" means if she's asking if she's being roofied or something. It's hyperbolic nonsense. The question is asking if it's alcoholic or not.. but this does bring up a further feminist anti-male-seeking-female stance that if a man tries to give women drinks they are manipulating and some sort of predator. In fact, women are grown adults who can handle themselves, they aren't children. If they are comfortable with a charming man, they'll have drinks with him.

The second verse to that song has her trying to get him to stay longer....
He's trying to leave but she doesn't want him to. NEITHER wants to leave.

It's a cute duet song....masterfully written and sung it's a piece of art. We don't have a lot of talent doing such pieces anymore.

 

[Mr. Friscus]

Yeah..its the MAGA mindset in a nutshell...."if she tried to leave, spike her drink".

Merry Christmas.

Hollywood and Celebs is your radical leftist mindset.. and between Weinstein, Cosby, Puff Daddy… that’s on you I guess LOL

 

[Unkotare]

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Here in Cambodia the women are beautiful, they are wonderful, kindhearted, good people. The entire population is great… very family oriented and traditional. ...

You are a stereotype.