I'm afraid if you conducted your per the examples of the Biblical Gods (moreso in regard to the OT vs. the Christian co-option of the NT), there would be every reason to separate you from society. The saying "God is love" is contradicted by the God. The cruelty and viscious acts of the the OT and NT Gods are utterly horrific.Gardening and playing the harp, or any other of the activities you describe have eternal consequences with or without my participation.
On the other hand, the gods given to you by your family unit may be the wrong gods.
And?
You could spend eternity apart from the real gods.
That safety net of "living in heaven forever" seems to be the "hook" of religious belief - not for everyone perhaps - but a great many believers. Fear of death, fear of the unknown, fear of living life that can be cruel and short are mitigated by the promise of a father figure who will care for us.
The Bible teaches us the Way to live this life in the physical world. I suspect we will have a new set of instructions for the next. The Way of eternal (described as without beginning without end) life is described as loving and being loved. Love is eternal and God is love. I am not concerned about the next life. This life is the shadow, we will all move into the light next.
It's concerning that folks describe this life as "the shadows" vs. some claimed next life. That cheapens every idea of living one's life as compassionate, generous and being altruistic. Those attributes are goals I only sometimes achieve but they have no connection to zeeking "rewards in heaven". There is no requirement or need to add sentience and other anthropomorphic attributes to nature. Therefore, the theistic worldview unnecessarily complicates a simple concept in order to assign nature with a quasi-comforting personality.