Your post is rambling nonsense, but I will answer anyway.
Two years ago, June 2008
Stock market and housing market was in a collapse. I lost 33% of my 401K and my house lost 20% in value. My 21 yr old son was cancelled from my health insurance plan and had to go on the private market to spend too much money on a plan that pays very little.
Today, June 2010
The Stock Market has recovered much of what it lost and my 401K is almost back to where it was two years ago. My house is still below value but has regained 5-10% of its loss.
With the passing of healthcare, I can now put my son back onto my healthcare plan and he can have full coverage again.
So, the answer in my situation is that I am better off than I was two years ago
The Stock Market has recovered much of what it lost? dude it was at 15k at its high. Its at 10k now. are you for real?
And you house is not below value, in truth it is much closer to it's actually worth now than it was before the crash. That is kinda the whole point of a bubble, and what we are doing right now, trying to re inflate that bubble, is insanity in its highest form.
As far as you're 401k nearly being back to where it was, I call BS. I don't know maybe you have some special 401k but most peoples are still no where near where they were. how could they be with the stark market still 33% off its all time highs?
It is nice that you can put your son back on your health care. Really I am not being sarcastic at all I have kids, but at what cost? It might just be the whole damn house of cards at the rate were spending, and we all know Health care is going to cost WAY more than they're telling us.