Kids who bully need to be warned and not destroyed. There is no problem with that. When it comes to things you typed, there is a lot of other things that goes with that. Sexuality can be affected from personality, shyness, repressions caused y parental upbringings, and local environmental living. It can be a deflection to what we call normal. It is the push to go to alternative that may not be real. We have people who suffer.Not everyone is wired the same
Sexuality is not the same as biological sex
Pretending otherwise does not change things