Not everyone believes Jesus is God incarnate or was born of the virgin Mary, or that he died for anyone's sins. Why would God demand people believe in your Christian religious dogma to have their sins forgiven or establish a relationship with Him? You're not making any sense. There is nothing in the Hebrew Bible that supports your Christian claims about salvation. Not one verse.
Subjective hypothetical questions? You are stating that the Holy Scriptures make no sense? Everything that I presented is verified and documented by Book, Chapter and Verse.
Basically you are asking......How can a supposed Caring/Loving God send you to hell? People who actually hold such a view are in need of being instructed in the TRUTH before it's too late, and you end up in the hell that you denied while living when there was hope for you.
The Truth to your quandary is found in the Word of God. As a Christian, I am advised to always present the reason for the eternal hope that resides within me, in my heart. (1 Peter 3:15) I base my faith upon the Word of God.....why? Jesus, Himself said, "Thy Word is Truth." -- John 17:17. Thus, I know that I can depend upon God to provide an answer to your question, after all He was the One that created Hell as an eternal punishment (Matthew 25:41).....Hell was created for the Devil and his angels, because of the Rebellion in Heaven. Satan was leader of an uprising based upon PRIDE and God cast him from heaven (Isaiah 14:12, Rev. 12:7-17) There was a war in heaven waged against God's arc angel Michael and His angels......the Devil was defeated and cast down to earth. If you become corrupted..i.e, sin because you follow the advise from the god of this world........the Devil 2 Cor. 4:4) you risk the same eternal punishment reserved for anyone that rebels against the righteousness of the Lord God.
Why would God send you to Hell? God would not send you to hell "unjustly". If God made exceptions to the laws He has revealed to man, then He would not be God.........would He? What if you do not turn from your sinful ways? The question is then asked, what makes YOU special, why should God make you a Law unto yourself?
The Word of God declares that God loves each and every person ever created and wants to send no one to hell and He is very patient (longsuffering) with our rebellious/reprobate mind set after having been corrupted by the great deceiver, the liar and father of lies ....Satan (John 8:48)..... "God is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish, but all should come to repentance (turn from sin, rebelling against God's authority)" -- 2 Peter 3:9
You should read and comprehend Romans, Chapter 1:1-16 These passages of scripture describe God as being rich in goodness, forbearance (Tolerant), and longsuffering with man.....traits that God would hope led man to repentance by the very act of providing you a method, a way to ESCAPE THE HELL RESERVED FOR SATAN and HIS MINIONS......God loves us so much that He planned a method for man to escape the hell reserved for the rebellious......."For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes on Him (a simple belief......its not difficult) should not perish, but have everlasting life." -- John 3:16. Jesus, God incarnate..........took the sins of the world upon Himself, now that is the ultimate form of love, He hung on a cross in the most inhumane method for a man to be executed.........so you would not have to go to hell, becoming SIN HIMSELF (1 Peter 2:24, 2 Cor. 5:21)
It all comes down to "FREE WILL"............you will go to hell, because you CHOOSE to GO TO HELL, not because God is slack in demonstrating His love toward us. Why is man in this position? Because of One Man's SIN (ADAM/EVE) .....mankind was created in the image of God. God provided everything that man needed and required in a Garden of Eden designed expressly for that purpose. Adam sinned so greatly.......the same sin that Satan was convicted of, self pride.....He believed Satan when he told Adam/Eve that he/she could become gods by disobeying God's command not to partake of the tree of knowledge. One Law........and it was disobeyed because of Satan. Adam's sin sentenced all mankind to a physical death....as man was cast from the Garden where immorality was present in the form of the tree of life.......from that time on all men are under a death sentence........God could not allow evil thoughts based upon free will to have access to immortality (Genesis 3:22). (Imagine people such as Hitler having immortality) In fact God was made sorry that He ever created man on earth as their thoughts were becoming evil constantly and He decided to reboot His creation because of the free will choices made by men.......were always evil (Genesis 6:6) The world was saved to be re-generated because of the righteousness of one man and His family........Noah. My God is a just God. The only way to worship Him is in Spirit (as we are made in His spiritual image) and Truth. (John 16:13). Truth exists only in one place......the revealed word of God.
God has no respect of person.......The Word of God is there for all men to have easy access, it reads the same for everyone if read in context while maintaining the subject matter of the Chapter and Book........the Books were written without private interpretation in mind, regardless of what language its translated.......it maintains the TRUTH. (2 Peter 1:19-20) based upon the eyewitness Testament of the authors. (2 Peter 1:16)