okay robert follow me here...a man owns his sperm till he does what? ...say it with me...gives it to a woman...then she owns the sperm and can use it....moral of this little tale...keep your hands and sperm to yourself....condoms work great for this
men must take responsiblity for where they spread their sperm....i love how men pretend to be all weak...i couldnt resist blah blah blah...well think about 18 yrs plus of childsupport when you engage in unprotected sex
This is exactly why i tell my son to never never never trust a woman, not even if he's married, with birth control.
And the kicker of this whole argument is that a woman can have an abortion, or abandon a child under safe haven laws and there is absolutely no stigma attached.
But a man who doesn't want the child is forced to pay and pay and if he doesn't want to be "actively involved" in raising said child, he is labeled as a deadbeat, a bad person, a man of poor character while the woman is lionized and praised even if she lied to him about being on the pill.
So men,
never trust a woman with birth control.
This brings up another issue that bugs the shit out of me.
A woman can walk into an abortion clinic and terminate a pregnancy and she is never asked, "What does the father think about you aborting his child?"
But when I was 26, I went to a urologist to have a vasectomy and the nurse asked me, "What does your wife think about you getting a vasectomy?"
To which I answered "I don't care what she thinks about it."
the doctor tried to tell me that my wife (now my ex) had to be involved and actually sign some of the paperwork. Needless to say I told the doctor that I would do no such thing, that I and I alone was in charge of any and all of my own medical decisions.
Yet another double standard when it comes to reproduction.
