Abstinence 'is not realistic,' Palin's daughter says

[Sky Dancer]

Yeah, that's what happens when two people live in the same household. Tresha's GF posts too, but not often.

Same with Arthur.

Arthur isn't coming back.

Both accounts could be banned as far as either of us are concerned.

 

[catzmeow]

Tresha's GF posts too, but not often.

Same with Arthur.

Arthur isn't coming back.

Both accounts could be banned as far as either of us are concerned.

Why do you lack the control to ban yourself?

 

[dilloduck]

Tresha's GF posts too, but not often.

Same with Arthur.

Arthur isn't coming back.

Both accounts could be banned as far as either of us are concerned.

Why do you lack the control to ban yourself?

and miss a good chance at being mistreated---?? cmon

 

[catzmeow]

and miss a good chance at being mistreated---?? cmon

That's true. Banning one's self from a hostile environment requires exercising CONTROL, versus being a passive victim at the mercy of other people's whims.

 

[Sky Dancer]

I take breaks. That works for me.

 

[catzmeow]

I take breaks. That works for me.

Clearly not, since you repeatedly ask to be banned.

That's a hilarious tactic, by the way.

 

[GHook93]

It is so so true! Look at the highschool students that practiced abstinence when you were in highschool? They usually didn't do it by choice! I lost my big V in my senior year! I didn't wait Fresh, Soph or Jr because of choice! I did it because of lack of partner.

I think we should teach girls and boys (separately) that its best to wait and tell them the horrors of teenage pregnancy. I truly believe we as adults need to be honest with ourselves. Teens are probably not going to listen to calls for abstinence and it is ignorant to believe they will. What they should do is preach safe sex and have a place in school for where they can get free condoms anonymously. Also a girl should feel safe with approaching the school nurse with her conversations held private about birth control pills (the school should make it know that her identity and conservation will be private and confidential, nor will the school nurse judge or try to persuade her, rather she will only help her). I also go back and forth on the abortion pill, but in the end the social liberal comes out in me and I think its should also be provided anonymously. I remember my first dozen or so times were unprotected. Because (1) I was too afraid for some reason to buy condoms at the store and (2) my catholic girlfriend at the time was way to scared to tell her parents she needed birth control. It wasn't until they caught us bare naked and all (great memory for the memory banks) that she got on the pill!

Now if there was a safe place in school where I could have got condoms without anyone knowing, I probably would have. Same with my girlfriend and the pill!

Look I have a daughter (very young one) and it pains me to think that she might be tempted in highschool. I honestly pray that she stays pure until she gets married in her late 20s (after college). But I am a realist. Trust me I am going to preach abstinence big time and that all teenage boys are dogs, but I will have my wife (I don't think I can have those conversations with her) about safe sex! Realism is better than fanatism. OK I official grossed myself out and scared the hell out of myself!

 

[Care4all]

It wasn't until they caught us bare naked and all (great memory for the memory banks) that she got on the pill!

 

[Sky Dancer]

I take breaks. That works for me.

Clearly not, since you repeatedly ask to be banned.

That's a hilarious tactic, by the way.

Good for you. You understand my sense of humor.

 

[GHook93]

It wasn't until they caught us bare naked and all (great memory for the memory banks) that she got on the pill!

Also there was no where to run and we didn't hear them come home (they weren't supposed to be home for hours - famous last line)! I do think if her dad had a shotgun, I wouldn't be gracing USMB with my wisdom. I remember is hearing, "What the **** is Going on" and then the lights went on. And all of sudden there I am standing butt naked and in shock! Think about it, your a good catholic father with a Jewish little punk violating your only daughter! Yep I thought I was dead!

 

[Care4all]

I had read recently, that girls that have Fathers that are close with them in their preteen years,(puberty) and fathers that tell them like it is with near every boy out there, they want to get in her pants and will try every trick in the book to do so, and most importantly Fathers that tell their daughters that saying NO to this is a good thing, and shows the boys ''who'' really is in control of her own body...will NOT make boys run away from her....not the decent ones, that they will probably even desire her more by her saying NO....

turn out to be girls or women with great self esteem, and girls that resist sex with anyone, but wait....

this thing i was reading says the mom telling them all that stuff is not as affective.

 

[Anguille]

LOL! I was gonna say. I suppose if she wants to read Dear Abby, she can buy the paper.

Please. Dear Abby doesn't have my skills and knowledge in this realm.

Wrong thread for that post.

You meant that one for USMB's Most Idiotic.

 

[xsited1]

Abstinence 'is not realistic,' Palin's daughter says
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Where were these girls when I was going to school!

 

[catzmeow]

In Missouri.

 

[Andrew2382]

Abstinence 'is not realistic,' Palin's daughter says
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They were there.....the majority of girls in high school are *******...especially today.

I know they were when I graduated

 

[Amanda]

In Missouri.

I grew up in Kansas, but it prolly wasn't much different in MO.

 

[Sky Dancer]

My sympathies. I'd hyperventilate or die in the midwest. I like the mountains or the coasts.

I won't even visit KC.

 

[AllieBaba]

Hindsight is 20/20.



Besides in some of those cults, you can become a born again virgin. There is even a church ceremont for it! My sister worked with a guy whose daughter did it.

Sure she did. Name the church.

 

[AllieBaba]

I find it laughable that you guys are ready to shit yourself over the pearls of wisdom dropping from the lips of an 18 year old.

What buffoonery.

 

[random3434]

I had read recently, that girls that have Fathers that are close with them in their preteen years,(puberty) and fathers that tell them like it is with near every boy out there, they want to get in her pants and will try every trick in the book to do so, and most importantly Fathers that tell their daughters that saying NO to this is a good thing, and shows the boys ''who'' really is in control of her own body...will NOT make boys run away from her....not the decent ones, that they will probably even desire her more by her saying NO....

turn out to be girls or women with great self esteem, and girls that resist sex with anyone, but wait....

this thing i was reading says the mom telling them all that stuff is not as affective.

What a shame. Did Anne Coulter write it?

I think if your daughter respects you, she will respect your opinion. Also, if she respects herself, there is less sex with boys just to validate your self worth.


So, is it true what they say?

Abstinence makes the heart grow fonder?