you need to try to put yourself in their shoes. how would react in their situation?
they're boxed in, not allowed self determination. resources and movement are restricted, and it's not uncommon to have tanks rolling through their neighborhoods killing people in a 10 to 1 ratio.
it's important to keep that in mind - perspective is everything.
You blindly refuse to recognize those incidents are the direct result of attacks on Israel. Israel offered to help them set up their own Government years ago and the response was direct attacks on Israel and the intifada.
the only thing i refuse to do is give either side a pass.
playing the 'but he started it' game doesn't move things forward or help anyone.
Aren't you doing the same thing when you constantly blame Israel for the problems. The problems are in retaliation to excessive violence and attacks on unarmed Israeli children. The constant rocket attacks with chemical/biological warheads don't help either. Would you just sit back and let your neighbours kill your children and destroy your home, or would you retaliate ?

