Esmeralda
Diamond Member
Mom who spent her whole life using powerful men to advance her career, and broke up families, and she wondered why her daughter thought this was perfectly okay?
Allen was the one who should have put the brakes on the relationship with Soon Yi. He was the 50 year old adult. She was a very young, inexperienced woman. That her values may have been influenced by her mother's youthful behavior is irrelevant; Allen was over 50 years old, Soon Yi's mother's boyfriend of 12 years, father to one biological child with Mia and 2 adopted children with her, all of whom were step siblings of Soon Yi and growing up in the same home. Allen should have known better; Soon Yi was young enough to be excused due to youth and inexperience.
What you have shown clearly in this post is that you are biased toward Mia Farrow because of things she did prior to this incident. Your whole take on it is biased because of that.
Soon Yi is nearly 40 now, and she's still with him.
Probably has more on the ball than Mia did on how to have a lasting relationship.
Look, I think Allen's relationship with Soon-Yi is kind of creepy. But it's not illegal. And it's not child molestation or incest.
I'm biased against Mia because I think she's a vindictive person who would bully her children into hating their father.
Soon Yi still being with him is irrelevant. You are assuming the reason they are still together is that Soon Yi has something 'on the ball' about relationships. You have no way of knowing why they are still together. I wonder what kind of woman throws her youth away on a man 35 years her senior. You have never been a parent perhaps? And you don't see what it means that his having a sexual relationship with Soon Yi, estranging her from her family,etc., is far more than creepy. You show obvious bias against Farrow for things she did in her youth and assume that she is the stereotypical scorned woman though the custody court determined there nothing to that theory.