catzmeow
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I've been guys I didn't love and had great sex. Caring about the other person adds another dimension for me, but it wasn't required in the past. I'm trying to clean up my act so I haven't had any in a while doubt but I think it will be even better once I start again because I plan to only do it in committed LTRs.
I think this is awesome, Amanda, and I applaud your decision. I took that path a few years ago when I re-entered the dating world in my late 30s (as opposed to my rather slutty 20s) and I have never regretted it.
I will say, however, that even with a person you love and are crazy about, there can be times when it's a duty. It's not that you don't love the person, it's not that the sex isn't great, it's that it's been going on for 45 minutes now, and can't he freaking GET IT OVER WITH???
Not that I've had personal experiences here or anything.