A friend, to me, is someone who is there for you when they feel you are trying to succeed in something they may or may not, have any interest in. But they want to help when they can, and this friend could be a family member or a very special person who would be there to help you, not "IF" they can, but when you need them. They will put your needs before theirs, if necessary.
It is imperative, for me, to be the same kind of friend to them and that is why I choose only one or two, to call a friend. I think that makes me quite rich.
Acquaintances are usually fair-weather people with whom you might share mutual beliefs and ambitions, but cannot be depended upon to assist. Which is why my favorite quote of all time is, "Never assume anything." And my second fave is, "When in doubt, don't." And my third...."A friend to all, is a friend to none." ---Aristotle
But this familiar quote cannot be surpassed in my mind, relative to friendship: "A friend in need, is a friend, indeed." And I have one here.
i agree.... friends are there at your very worst, and when you need them and not just when THEY are available. I call them bad time friends...because they are there for all the bad times not just the good times. I expect friends to do the best they can... not the least they can.
my brother was moving and had a broken leg..... and we said we would be there to help. We got there and..... we were the ONLY ones there to help him. Not one of this many friends showed up. He learned something that day.
That IS how I perceive you, syrenn.
When our mother died, I sent my brother a sympathy card. He said nothing had meant so much to him in our time of sorrow. That gesture made two people feel love and friendship.
As asaratis said, having more than one true friend is lucky for it is loving someone as it is caring for yourself. Never a cross word, standing up for that person, forgiving and sharing the greatest times and the most devastating ones as well.
You can just be yourself with your true friend and you will always know that is acceptable because that person cares for you as much as you care for them. A true bond.