MarathonMike
Diamond Member
not trying to make an insult but isn't this liberal culture not American culture.
guess you can say that they control more than conservative culture but still I don't like painting all of American culture as already lost.
perhaps I'm wrong?
I'm confused by your post. Isn't this liberal culture, not American culture. What does that mean?
I would suggest that American culture is lost. Now that doesn't mean it can't be redeemed, but right now it is in fact, very lost.
People are acting crazy, ending up with terrible lives, and trying to blame everyone else for the misery they feel.
And to some extent, I understand this, because they have been told all their lives, that anything goes and you can do what you want.
And while that is in fact true..... Being able to do what you want, doesn't mean there are no consequences.
Years ago, I had a roommate that was over 400 lbs. One day... (I am not making this up).... they came home with two chocolate cakes. They explained that they went to one store, and saw a chocolate cake. They decided they needed this chocolate cake. Then after they were done shopping there, they went to another store, and saw ANOTHER chocolate cake. They decided to buy that chocolate cake too....... that way they could eat them both.... and know in the future which store had a better chocolate cake.
Fast forward 3 years. I stopped at a restaurant to eat, and there they were. We sat together and talked.... apparently they have diabetes now. SHOCKING.....
What is my point? People today have no connection between actions and consequences.
They are self-centered, and have lost connection to family, friends, spouses. They demand what they want, and don't care about anyone else.
Doesn't matter if I have a penis... if I 'identify' as a girl, then I'm going into the girls rest room. What do the girls think? Doesn't matter. What I want, is what I should have.
Then they wonder why they are isolated, lonely, and LGBTQ people have the highest rates of suicide in the country. But it can't be because of their choices, it's because of society somehow.
And it's not a gay thing either. That's just the most obvious example. You look at relationships, and you see people screwing around, from person to person to person, and then they can't hold any relationship together. Wonder why? You see people marry, divorce, and remarry... only to divorce again.... wonder why?
I see people wasting their lives away on video games, drugs, alcohol, parties.... and they are 40 years old, act like they are 20, and have nothing to show for their existence.
Had a co-worker that is throwing their life away. Literally. Drinks himself drunk. Doesn't show up to work. Has a beautiful wife. Beautiful daughter. Has money, property, a future.
I have nothing, that he has. His wife is really sexy. Really attractive. His daughter is wonderful, smart, straight A student. Great future ahead of her.
And what's he doing? Destroying his whole life. Because he's not happy. Because he wants to drink. Because it's all about him. All about his life, and no one else matters.
This is the cancer of American Culture. We've lost something, that 30 years ago, we still had.
I think you've hit at the core of the problem. Individual responsibility. I remember having discussions with my Grandfather years before he passed away. I was in awe as he told me about his life, about lying about his age at 16 so he could get a job working on the railroad. He and my Grandma raised three sons literally on pennies a day. They did everything they could to survive but my Grandfather refused "handouts" from the government or anyone else. He viewed that as the ultimate failure.
He then got a better job at an oil refinery and often worked two shifts. He was nearly deaf from being around all the loud machinery all those years. But then he smiled at me and said "Mike after all that, your Grandma and I don't owe anybody a dime. This house is ours, the boys all have their own families and I can play all the golf I want."
Your life is your responsibility. When you shift responsibility to someone else, you have lost. That is what my Grandfather taught me and I hope that is what I've passed on to my sons.