You need to understand a little better about what Jesus meant. He taught--return evil for evil to no one--Most have premeditated return evil for evil for their enemies by throwing Jesus away to console---SELF and PRIDE.
He never taught to hate another mortal. He taught to hate the wicked deeds that opposed Gods will.
Psalm 5:5 The foolish shall not stand in thy sight: thou hatest all workers of iniquity.
If you love what God hates, then you don't belong to God. Jesus hated the Jews. He constantly showed his hatred for the Jews, such as when he said they're children of the Devil. Within the context of the Bible, Jesus invented Hell as a place for God to corporately throw Jews. But, you don't know the Bible, so you think I'm wrong.
It's a stupid concept to hate the sin without hating the sinner. There is no such thing as sin apart from a sinner.
Does this sound like hate???? After humiliating him, hitting him, spitting on him and even after driving spikes through his flesh, Jesus returned---Forgive them Father they know not what they do.
Jesus forgave the Romans, not the Jews. Jesus was in exclusive Roman custody when he said "Father forgive them for they know not what they do". Jesus hadn't told the Romans about himself, so the Romans didn't know what they were doing. There's no reason to believe that Jesus' statement applied to Jews. Given that God judged the Jews in 70AD, the Jews weren't forgiven. Jesus hated the Jews.
Jesus' request that the Father forgive the Romans would be contingent upon the Romans repenting, and for which they wouldn't be regarded as sinners.
Jesus came specifically for the Israelites because he did love them. God even left the door open to them after sending his son to his death. Matthew 23:37-39