Sarcasm? Ok.So is the dad still around? Mom kept appearing with a guy...was that the stepdad or the real dad? Which one yelled BURN IT DOWN and why didn't mom say NO DON'T? Oh I know. She was upset her thug son was dead.
Since you're an insider to the situation I shouldn't bother questioning you
Just putting myself in her shoes. I'd be pissed off too...but I would also be ashamed my kid was a thug.