I understand it's a bother to make it a point to contact parents on a regular basis. Saying they don't all have the internet is a cop out. You're saying you won't contact 180 parents because five don't have the internet.
A bad response from someone and I'd contact them once more and make a note to not call them again. You've gone the extra mile.
When I say they don't have the Internet it's true.
Now as I stated every student gets a syllabus from me with my phone number and school email address-so every parent should have my contact information. I make the students rip the portion to it with a parent's signature (those that don't return it or forged a signature get a call home). That's the first way I reach out.
I update all of my contact information and assignments/announcements on my class page for their parents to access.
I call parents whose child is struggling-many times their parents don't answer, aren't interested, or are afraid to talk to school personnel due to their legal status as in the us.
I invite parents to attend conference night.
Other than calling every parent on the phone (which I will do if their kid is either messing up or improving), or knocking on their doors there's not much more I can do.
If a parent contacts me (which I've clearly informed them on how to do so), I'll talk to them and be open minded (like I said a lesson I taught a few weeks ago directly came from a conversation I had with a parent in the past). It was a great lesson and honestly one I probably wouldn't have thought of on my own-so why wdid uosnt I teach it?
My problem is with the drug dealers, the kids who look up to Pablo Escobar or Jay-Z and the apathy that runs rampant in my classroom. I produce results which is why they give me "those kids" the ones that nobody else wants and I get some kind of them on the right track. The bottom line however is if parents don't care about their child's education and the child doesn't care...there's only so much I can do. I can give them the keys and the car to get to where they need to go, but if they sit around all day doing nothing and don't want to get into the car-i can't force them to.
I understand you do the minimum amount possible because you get a paycheck regardless.
You could call no more than 3 or 4 parents a day and have all 180 contacted, or left a message for in three months and then start over. Maybe you could make a change in your school. Please don't tell me that you could not at least double the parents showing up if they really believed YOU had as much or more of an interest in their kids. Shame them into participating.
I do the minimum? Tell that to the kids I tutor (for free) after school. Tell that to the kid who came to my room last week in tears because I guided him on his way to earning a scholarship (which I wasn't paid for).
Contacting 3 parents a day would take 60 days....which would be 12 weeks...almost 1 1/2 semesters. That's assuming that every parent i call answers.
Again they have my contact information and they're adults-if they want to contact me they can. It's not my fault if they don't take any initiative. It's called personal responsibility and if parents want a say in what goes on i the classroom-they need to show up to conference night, or email their kid's teachers, or call the teachers, or send a note with their kid, or call the school. I guarantee the parents go to the football games (I do too mind you).
Believe me I don't do my job for a check (I run my online business for a check)--I actually make less money by teaching than I would if I didn't. I'm well aware there are teachers who do the minimum just for a check and it's embarrassing befaue it makes us who are dedicated look worse.
You say you don't do it for a check but refuse to reach out to anyone who doesn't come to you first.
The usual has failed. Yet you have a lot of excuses for not changing. You wish for me to believe that reaching out to parents, bringing them into a circle of communications with emails and phone calls would make more of a difference than one student is not believable. If the parents don't answer, you leave a message.
That's fine, I understand.
How is me posting my contact information on the site/program for the class not reaching out? How is me sending them home with a syllabus with contact information not reaching out?
Reaching out is done, but does no good! Doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result is the definition of insanity.
That perfectly describes our current education system run by teachers unions. Keep doing the same thing and keep paying those DOLLARS!
National Education Association General Counsel Bob Chanin stated in July 2009.
Chanin: "It is not because we care about children. And it is not because we have a vision of a great public school for every child. NEA and its affiliates are effective advocates because we have power. And we have power because there are more than 3.2 million people who are willing to pay us hundreds of millions of dollars in dues...."
Says it all, does it not?
Crickets.....