Luissa, when my son was small we found that ibuprofen would often calmed him. Same with caffeine. Never understood it exactly. Docs we saw all wanted him on Risperdal or Ritalin type drugs. The side effects were awful but the docs just brushed those off as no big deal. Yeah, it's never a big deal till it's your kid. We changed his diet (he was gluten free for four years or so) which helped. Don't know if that is something you've looked into or not but there's lots of info out there about it.
No way am I putting my son Risperdal, I see what it does to the people I give it to at work. I think that drug should be taken off the market.
I just started doing a little research, I plan on doing a lot, but right now it's hard to think about.
As for caffeine, I have even heard that people with ADHD can be calmed down by meth. And Ativan makes them go crazy. We have some residents that have shown increased behavior problems on Ativan. One man I took care of picked up a chair and broke a lamp with it after they put him on Ativan. They took him off of it and put him on pain pills, problem solved.
Many times it is pain, and they cannot express it.
I might try a small amount of Ibuprofen on the days it gets really bad. Thanks.
As for caffeine, I don't know. I left my Red Bull down once(never did it again), and he acted like a crack addict trying to find his next fix, I swear he was picking through the carpets, and he only had a small amount.