daveman
Diamond Member
My Dad is 90, my Mom is 87. Neither can do much around the house. Dad has his birdfeeders, and Mom has a new kitten -- one of the feral cats she feeds outside snuck in the house and adopted her. It'll be good for her, I think. She hasn't had an indoor cat in about 10 years."rudderless"?
We have a friend who has worked in rescue for her whole life. She has 3 old cats and says that when the last one dies, she'll be ready to die as well.
Seems like, without rescue work, she has no meaning, no place to go. No rudder.
I think the same thing often happens with some people when they retire. I have such a long bucket list, I'm thrilled not to have to work anymore. And, I still dabble with selling on Amazon and eBay which has actually gotten to be a bit of a hassle that sometimes keeps me from doing things I want to do.
But, some people don't have interests outside their work so retirement just isn't what they want or need.
Interesting thread.