All depends on how the greek word effeminate is translated, which is said once in the NT and of course never by Jesus.
It is shocking the ratio of how much fundies care about homosexuality compared to adultery/remarriage which Jesus SPECIFICALLY condemns in the NT and is one of the 10 commandments.
How many churches will happily perform a marriage of 2 divorced people? In other words, happily celebrate adultery and enable it right within their walls.
The real question is, how many WON'T do it?
The difference is you don't see Pro-cheat-on-your-spouse rallies. Otherwise, you might have a point.