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I think I'll wait for the post-Trump update on lies since he has rewritten the rules on veracity.Have you no shame?
But....since you are here, let me offer you the help you so sorely require....
"After the first lies, moreover, others can come more easily. Psychological barriers wear down; lies seem more necessary, less reprehensible; the ability to make moral distinctions can coarsen; the liar's perception of his chances of being caught may warp. These changes can affect his behavior in subtle ways; even if he isn't found out he will then be less trusted than those of unquestioned honesty. And it is inevitable that more frequent lies do increase the chance tht some will be discovered.
...even if the liar has no personal sense of loss of integrity from his deceitful practices, he will surely regret the damage to his credibility which their discovery brings about.
...once his word is no longer trusted, he will be left with greatly decreased power....."
"What's Fair: Ethics for Negotiators"
edited by Carrie Menkel-Meadow, Michael Wheeler p. 84
Reform yourself....you'll be the better for it.
You've waited too long already.
"These risks are increased by the fact that so few lies are solitary ones. It is easy, a wit observed, to tell a lie, but hard to tell only one. The first lie "must be thatched with another or it will rain through." More and more lies may come to be needed; the liar always has more mending to do. And the strains on him become greater each time- many have noted that it takes an excellent memory to keep one's untruths in good repair and disentangles. The sheer energy the liar has to devote to shoring them up is energy that honest people can dispose of freely."
Lying: Moral Choice in Public and Private Life
By Sissela Bok. p. 25