What if the kid is desperate and is cutting themselves and trying to commit suicide? Is there any compromise. They take the drugs but not the surgery or something I don't know that's why they have doctors and psychologists and psychiatristsA boy is not a girl.
Telling a boy that he is a girl, encouraging him to believe that, is abusive and harmful. And subjecting him to quasi-medical Frankensteinery that fucks his body up for life, to reinforce that falsehood, even more so.
For that matter, encouraging any minor, toward any fucked-up sexual perversion, is abusive and harmful.
That you even think of defending this shit tells us all that anyone needs to know about you; not that it is anything that we do not all already know about you.