CDZ Is being a polygamist a choice?

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    Anyone has the right to choose to have or not to have sex

    Has nothing to do with what you find sexually attractive
     
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    Your first line is incorrect and your second line is irrelevant to what I posted.

    I'm a Trump supporter, and conservative. I disagree with any and all conservatives who are anti gay marriage. I just don't understand why some gay marriage supporters have to lie and say "they were born that way" , when obviously no they weren't , they choose to be gay, and that's their business. It's as simple as that.
     
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    I don't think everyone is born the same and then, one day, decide they are going to be gay

    Why not ask gays?
    They should know best

    They will tell you they always felt that way and there was no decision
     
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    I dont see why it cant be both. Do you really think no one is born being attracted to the same sex? Do you really think no one is alive who didnt change their sexuality by pure choice?
    I asked gays and that is where i came up with my opinion. We dont live in a collective bubble. Regardless of how hard people try to make it that way.
     
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    I don't believe sexuality is necessarily black or white
    Many people are in the gray area and can drift easily between partners of either sex

    But it is none of my business and I really don't care who they choose as a partner
     
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    I've seen plenty of gays who said they choose to be gay

    And what about those, usually but not always women, who are married for years have kids and then decide "oh I'm gay now" were they just born gay later in life?

    It makes no sense.

    I have found that rarely are things that don't make sense true.
     
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    I would bet being aware and actually accepting something like that could take some time, depending on the person.
     
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    Societal pressure to marry and have children
    Some women put aside their feelings, marry, do the deed and then raise children

    After the children are gone and she is stuck with a husband she never loved, she says ....fuck it...I'll date who I want
     
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    What kind of person would be like "oh I'm married to a man for 10 years and have 3 kids oops I'm actually gay?"

    LOL no kinda person. Those women CHOOSE to be gay after being in their marriage .

    Human nature is to procreate, this is proven by the fact that dirt poor people who obviously know they can't afford a child have children anyway, THAT they can't help, they are fundamentally hardwired to procreate. And THAT is why we are naturally inclined to have sex with the opposite sex. Procreation. You're not actually born to think "yum I love me some titties" , you are born to think "I must procreate with the prettiest woman I can find" and the opposite for men.

    And don't even get me started on transgenders and the like LOL
     
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    Correct, the woman naturally wanted to be with a man and have kids and then later CHOSE to be with a woman.
     

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