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  1. Grampa Murked U
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    My ex who I still live with is imo taking advantage of the system. I just found out she is geting medicade. She has been getting foodstamps for the last month or two and I'm beside myself.

    I know many of you think I'm just a troll but I'm not and I'm floored. She knew how I felt from the beginning . I don't know if I should turn her in for fraud or just try to whither out of the picture.

    Many of you have said I offer too much of my personal life but I can't help it. After my stint in prison I became an honest person. And quite frankly its much easier to get your advise on here than it it is to admit my shame in public.

    I dunno what to do. I know what my beliefs tell me. But my heart is troubled. 8 years and I had no clue.
     
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    NOPE, ain't gonna go there. Sorry
     
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    And just now my screen on my fireplace breaks. Awesome.
     
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    Go there. I need to hear it. No negs or hard feelings will result from this thread no matter which side your on. I'm looking for advice.
     
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    I dont think you are a troll, first off. At times I respect your attempts to reign in the right wing wackadoos, not easy work.

    Here is my advice. Sit the person down, tell them how you feel, dont hold back. The best you can do is attempt to see if you can change their mind set.

    I would bet there is a govt number you can call and tell them this person is cheating if you so please. I would be 100% honest and tell this person you plan to make that call.
     
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    On the bright side I got one hell of a fire going despite my mess.

    I see reservation to respond. In a way I'm thankfull. But at the same time I would love some brutal honesty.

    Anyone got the balls? After all I'm just a stranger
     
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    Um, in what way is she guilty of fraud?
     
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    my question as well. If she's just on some temporary assistance, no problem that is what is there for.

    If she's a lifer, kill her.
     
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    I guess if Obama is going to hand out free shit and fuck over the economy. Sucks certainly but people voted for this shit again.
     
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    My question is are you also taking advantage of the system?

    Because..................I mean..................you've actually got an ex living with you. What does she do, pay rent, or are you letting her live there out of the goodness of your heart?

    Based on how you feel about others from what you've posted here, I doubt that it's because you're such a great guy. If there's not something in it for you, you generally don't participate.

    Besides..................why should you care? Is she paying her half of the bills? If so, keep your nose out of where she gets her money.

    Unless.......................of course..................you're pissed off at her and looking for a way to legally get her out of your life and cause her a bit of hassle at the same time.

    Can you pay all the bills yourself?
     

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