To tell you the truth I am loathe to admit defeat myself, but then I know when I'm licked,...all over.Never happen..too much ego and the need for validation, acceptance and belonging is involved..They need to try to save face...the internet is pretty funny..."That", you, idiot is a relative pronoun referring to something previously mentioned or already specified if you prefer. Wtf would I write "that" and go on to define what it refers to? Go back and read it one more time in context and with your newly found grammatic knowledge then get back to me.
Sheesh!
Choosing your words more carefully to start with would be a lot easier on you than all this spinning and dancing.
There was nothing wrong with my grammar or articulation. Can't you just admit you were wrong and stop making an ass of yourself?!