That is absurd. Humans have sex. You are screwed up beyond words.They should not have sex with a woman unless that woman wants a child.
Since no birth control is 100% effective, men should adamantly refuse to have sex with a woman unless she wants to be pregnant.
It takes sperm to get pregnant.
How about men just stay out of people's personal moral choices which they only involve themselves in as a means of controlling the “harlots”