Girls are beautiful OR ELSE?

[anotherlife]

This is a GREAT topic. I can't understand why more people are not chiming in.

There are MANY women that clearly do not care about their looks. Just look around. Flat hair, pulled back in a pony tail, no make up etc. And the obvious that many many are overweight.

For those that are pretty, however, there is steep competition, but that is the minority

What type of competition do you mean?

Also, here is a theory, as men never really know why a woman loves them even if obvious to the woman, women never know why a man loves them even if obvious to the man. So women never know their beauty.

I mean that among the "attractive girls" there is an unspoken competition to look better than the other ones. For those that are not so attractive, well, I don't think they really try because it's futile. I think this is what happens to married women who let themselves go. They realize they can't look "beautiful", so they take pleasure in food or whatever.....

As far a "non physical" beauty, if that is what you are speaking of, I think you will love someone that is like you in many regards. Thinks like you do, so, in that sense, it's like finding a soulmate.

Then here is another thing, I have found.

Noticing new hair style or outfit. I observe that it is important, especially the new hairstyle.

Can there be a national class constructed that teaches how to relate to girls, but not by the liberal socialist fashion, so not by the fat acceptance movement and not by feminism? I know girls have such a class about men and that is called finishing school. It works. Can one construct something for girls in educating guys in schools?

 

[Bonzi]

This is a GREAT topic. I can't understand why more people are not chiming in.

There are MANY women that clearly do not care about their looks. Just look around. Flat hair, pulled back in a pony tail, no make up etc. And the obvious that many many are overweight.

For those that are pretty, however, there is steep competition, but that is the minority

What type of competition do you mean?

Also, here is a theory, as men never really know why a woman loves them even if obvious to the woman, women never know why a man loves them even if obvious to the man. So women never know their beauty.

I mean that among the "attractive girls" there is an unspoken competition to look better than the other ones. For those that are not so attractive, well, I don't think they really try because it's futile. I think this is what happens to married women who let themselves go. They realize they can't look "beautiful", so they take pleasure in food or whatever.....

As far a "non physical" beauty, if that is what you are speaking of, I think you will love someone that is like you in many regards. Thinks like you do, so, in that sense, it's like finding a soulmate.

Then here is another thing, I have found.

Noticing new hair style or outfit. I observe that it is important, especially the new hairstyle.

Can there be a national class constructed that teaches how to relate to girls, but not by the liberal socialist fashion, so not by the fat acceptance movement and not by feminism? I know girls have such a class about men and that is called finishing school. It works. Can one construct something for girls in educating guys in schools?

Finishing school teaches you about men?

 

[Bonzi]

This is a GREAT topic. I can't understand why more people are not chiming in.

There are MANY women that clearly do not care about their looks. Just look around. Flat hair, pulled back in a pony tail, no make up etc. And the obvious that many many are overweight.

For those that are pretty, however, there is steep competition, but that is the minority

What type of competition do you mean?

Also, here is a theory, as men never really know why a woman loves them even if obvious to the woman, women never know why a man loves them even if obvious to the man. So women never know their beauty.

I mean that among the "attractive girls" there is an unspoken competition to look better than the other ones. For those that are not so attractive, well, I don't think they really try because it's futile. I think this is what happens to married women who let themselves go. They realize they can't look "beautiful", so they take pleasure in food or whatever.....

As far a "non physical" beauty, if that is what you are speaking of, I think you will love someone that is like you in many regards. Thinks like you do, so, in that sense, it's like finding a soulmate.

Then here is another thing, I have found.

Noticing new hair style or outfit. I observe that it is important, especially the new hairstyle.

Can there be a national class constructed that teaches how to relate to girls, but not by the liberal socialist fashion, so not by the fat acceptance movement and not by feminism? I know girls have such a class about men and that is called finishing school. It works. Can one construct something for girls in educating guys in schools?

Finishing school teaches you about men?

Men just need to do one thing.... Pretend

 

[defcon4]

Men just need to do one thing.... Pretend

I think you got that backward. It is impossible for men to pretend.

 

[anotherlife]

This is a GREAT topic. I can't understand why more people are not chiming in.

There are MANY women that clearly do not care about their looks. Just look around. Flat hair, pulled back in a pony tail, no make up etc. And the obvious that many many are overweight.

For those that are pretty, however, there is steep competition, but that is the minority

What type of competition do you mean?

Also, here is a theory, as men never really know why a woman loves them even if obvious to the woman, women never know why a man loves them even if obvious to the man. So women never know their beauty.

I mean that among the "attractive girls" there is an unspoken competition to look better than the other ones. For those that are not so attractive, well, I don't think they really try because it's futile. I think this is what happens to married women who let themselves go. They realize they can't look "beautiful", so they take pleasure in food or whatever.....

As far a "non physical" beauty, if that is what you are speaking of, I think you will love someone that is like you in many regards. Thinks like you do, so, in that sense, it's like finding a soulmate.

Then here is another thing, I have found.

Noticing new hair style or outfit. I observe that it is important, especially the new hairstyle.

Can there be a national class constructed that teaches how to relate to girls, but not by the liberal socialist fashion, so not by the fat acceptance movement and not by feminism? I know girls have such a class about men and that is called finishing school. It works. Can one construct something for girls in educating guys in schools?

Finishing school teaches you about men?

For a start, it teaches you how not to be a feminist fat bully. That's a start, don't you think?

 

[anotherlife]

This is a GREAT topic. I can't understand why more people are not chiming in.

There are MANY women that clearly do not care about their looks. Just look around. Flat hair, pulled back in a pony tail, no make up etc. And the obvious that many many are overweight.

For those that are pretty, however, there is steep competition, but that is the minority

What type of competition do you mean?

Also, here is a theory, as men never really know why a woman loves them even if obvious to the woman, women never know why a man loves them even if obvious to the man. So women never know their beauty.

I mean that among the "attractive girls" there is an unspoken competition to look better than the other ones. For those that are not so attractive, well, I don't think they really try because it's futile. I think this is what happens to married women who let themselves go. They realize they can't look "beautiful", so they take pleasure in food or whatever.....

As far a "non physical" beauty, if that is what you are speaking of, I think you will love someone that is like you in many regards. Thinks like you do, so, in that sense, it's like finding a soulmate.

Then here is another thing, I have found.

Noticing new hair style or outfit. I observe that it is important, especially the new hairstyle.

Can there be a national class constructed that teaches how to relate to girls, but not by the liberal socialist fashion, so not by the fat acceptance movement and not by feminism? I know girls have such a class about men and that is called finishing school. It works. Can one construct something for girls in educating guys in schools?

Finishing school teaches you about men?

Men just need to do one thing.... Pretend

Not possible. The other way around.

 

[anotherlife]

i think we got to the bottom of the problem and there may be no solution ...

More fat women and more drunk men is the future of human civilization and demography.

 

[Bonzi]

What type of competition do you mean?

Also, here is a theory, as men never really know why a woman loves them even if obvious to the woman, women never know why a man loves them even if obvious to the man. So women never know their beauty.

I mean that among the "attractive girls" there is an unspoken competition to look better than the other ones. For those that are not so attractive, well, I don't think they really try because it's futile. I think this is what happens to married women who let themselves go. They realize they can't look "beautiful", so they take pleasure in food or whatever.....

As far a "non physical" beauty, if that is what you are speaking of, I think you will love someone that is like you in many regards. Thinks like you do, so, in that sense, it's like finding a soulmate.

Then here is another thing, I have found.

Noticing new hair style or outfit. I observe that it is important, especially the new hairstyle.

Can there be a national class constructed that teaches how to relate to girls, but not by the liberal socialist fashion, so not by the fat acceptance movement and not by feminism? I know girls have such a class about men and that is called finishing school. It works. Can one construct something for girls in educating guys in schools?

Finishing school teaches you about men?

Men just need to do one thing.... Pretend

Not possible. The other way around.

Pretend to be interested in her feelings and thoughts, to be strong yet loving and kind

 

[defcon4]

I mean that among the "attractive girls" there is an unspoken competition to look better than the other ones. For those that are not so attractive, well, I don't think they really try because it's futile. I think this is what happens to married women who let themselves go. They realize they can't look "beautiful", so they take pleasure in food or whatever.....

As far a "non physical" beauty, if that is what you are speaking of, I think you will love someone that is like you in many regards. Thinks like you do, so, in that sense, it's like finding a soulmate.

Then here is another thing, I have found.

Noticing new hair style or outfit. I observe that it is important, especially the new hairstyle.

Can there be a national class constructed that teaches how to relate to girls, but not by the liberal socialist fashion, so not by the fat acceptance movement and not by feminism? I know girls have such a class about men and that is called finishing school. It works. Can one construct something for girls in educating guys in schools?

Finishing school teaches you about men?

Men just need to do one thing.... Pretend

Not possible. The other way around.

Pretend to be interested in her feelings and thoughts, to be strong yet loving and kind

Now we know what you meant. Shoulda started with that. Now we look like some one track minded individuals what is far from us!!!!!!

 

[anotherlife]

I mean that among the "attractive girls" there is an unspoken competition to look better than the other ones. For those that are not so attractive, well, I don't think they really try because it's futile. I think this is what happens to married women who let themselves go. They realize they can't look "beautiful", so they take pleasure in food or whatever.....

As far a "non physical" beauty, if that is what you are speaking of, I think you will love someone that is like you in many regards. Thinks like you do, so, in that sense, it's like finding a soulmate.

Then here is another thing, I have found.

Noticing new hair style or outfit. I observe that it is important, especially the new hairstyle.

Can there be a national class constructed that teaches how to relate to girls, but not by the liberal socialist fashion, so not by the fat acceptance movement and not by feminism? I know girls have such a class about men and that is called finishing school. It works. Can one construct something for girls in educating guys in schools?

Finishing school teaches you about men?

Men just need to do one thing.... Pretend

Not possible. The other way around.

Pretend to be interested in her feelings and thoughts, to be strong yet loving and kind

I've just seen the classic movie "death becomes her" 1999 with Goldie Hawn where Goldie Hawn went super fat and to the loonie bin when her fiancée married her slutty friend. Is this what girls end up like if no one listens to them? Somehow a hard core needs to be inserted into them to give them a firmer standing, before its too late, I think.

 

[Gracie]

The most famous case is the radio sound bite that destroyed the singer Karen Carpenter,

Link? Never heard such a thing. My ex landlord was the carpenters agent.

 

[anotherlife]

The most famous case is the radio sound bite that destroyed the singer Karen Carpenter,

Link? Never heard such a thing. My ex landlord was the carpenters agent.

Common knowledge, my pal's mother said so and everyone knows it.

 

[Gracie]

But what was it? What soundbite? What radio? Explain please.

 

[anotherlife]

But what was it? What soundbite? What radio? Explain please.

I can't tell what happened 100 years before I was born, but apparently a radio reporter mistook her for a fat girl on the stage and commented about her like that and called her fat.

 

[Gracie]

I hardly think that is what drove her to become bulimic.

 

[Bonzi]

Then here is another thing, I have found.

Noticing new hair style or outfit. I observe that it is important, especially the new hairstyle.

Can there be a national class constructed that teaches how to relate to girls, but not by the liberal socialist fashion, so not by the fat acceptance movement and not by feminism? I know girls have such a class about men and that is called finishing school. It works. Can one construct something for girls in educating guys in schools?

Finishing school teaches you about men?

Men just need to do one thing.... Pretend

Not possible. The other way around.

Pretend to be interested in her feelings and thoughts, to be strong yet loving and kind

I've just seen the classic movie "death becomes her" 1999 with Goldie Hawn where Goldie Hawn went super fat and to the loonie bin when her fiancée married her slutty friend. Is this what girls end up like if no one listens to them? Somehow a hard core needs to be inserted into them to give them a firmer standing, before its too late, I think.

Sure. That movie is super realistic!

 

[xband]

If God ever created anything better than a woman, he kept it for himself.

 

[anotherlife]

Finishing school teaches you about men?

Men just need to do one thing.... Pretend

Not possible. The other way around.

Pretend to be interested in her feelings and thoughts, to be strong yet loving and kind

I've just seen the classic movie "death becomes her" 1999 with Goldie Hawn where Goldie Hawn went super fat and to the loonie bin when her fiancée married her slutty friend. Is this what girls end up like if no one listens to them? Somehow a hard core needs to be inserted into them to give them a firmer standing, before its too late, I think.

Sure. That movie is super realistic!

Imagine. You take each and every one of your boyfriends and fiancées to your man eater friend and you lose them to her one by one constantly, wouldn't that drive you to bulimia, gluttony, and the loonie bin eventually?

 

[anotherlife]

If God ever created anything better than a woman, he kept it for himself.

No He didn't. For you Americans, He created the female potbelly. It is larger than yours, so that Americans can be happy. Hehehe. Also the most formidable weapon in the arsenal of Americanizing the whole world.

 

[anotherlife]

I hardly think that is what drove her to become bulimic.

The radio bite went like "that little chubby girl didn't do too bad either", and that was her first ever performance, at that competition. Could be a defining moment, right? Like when your new date tells you that you are fat on your first date, I guess. Isn't that logical?