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Statists tend to think that, but I think many Americans are sick of the criminals in the Imperial Capital.My friend is about the most apolitical person you will ever meet. He doesn’t vote nor pay attention to politics at all. He has no interest.A life long friend of mine told me he probably won’t retire, even though he would like to and has the money to. His wife is a rabid liberal that regularly screams incoherently about one thing or another. She watches DNCTV all day long. He thinks Trump’s presidency may have sent her over the edge. He can’t be home listening to that.This whole article from New York Magazine seems like a great read, but I laughed right out loud several times reading this section. Boy, this lady seems like a real peach, doesn't she? Every man's dream of the perfect wife--full of RAGE. For people she doesn't even know.
Yep. Because THAT is not insane at all....
I’ve worked in Hollywood for 20 years, since back when sexual harassment was something people laughed at, and as a woman in that industry, I’ve experienced a lot of sexism; I’ve seen racism. Now I see ageism. It’s infuriating. So there’s a fair amount of anger that’s grown over the years, and that is definitely my de facto mode. I am trying to get rid of it through therapy. I don’t particularly think it’s healthy. But he has much less understanding about where all this comes from. For him, it’s a huge learning curve. It hasn’t broken up our marriage. But the rage that I feel, the toxicity I exhibit is something he often doesn’t understand.
I’d told him some of my stories about harassment, but when the Harvey Weinstein stuff started coming out, I told him more. I know he feels bad about the things I’ve been through. It’s more a global understanding he lacks. With #MeToo, for example, my feeling was, Let them all go down. He said, “You see no gray area in this?” And I said, “I don’t.” .....Though I should add he takes my constant rage with a sense of humor. If he took it personally, he’d probably be reduced to a little nub.
With Brett Kavanaugh, the first thing he said about him, before any of the allegations, was that they were once on a panel at some alumni thing and that he seemed like a nice guy, which of course started a fight. I said, “A nice guy based on what?” Everyone is a nice guy. And then at first, when Dr. Ford came forward, his reaction had an element of “Boys will be boys” and, you know, “It was 30-something years ago.” Even after Debbie Ramirez came forward, he was like, “Do you still think he could change after college?” I was like, “No.” At each stage, he’s had to reassess his feelings. And at each stage we have yet another argument.
Part of what causes fights is that I don’t want to hear his side, and he hates that. Mostly I tell him he needs to think about this more clearly before he talks to me about it, and then I walk away. I’ve heard his side for 30 years. I’m ready to hear new points of view.
Donald Trump Is Destroying My Marriage
I wonder how common this is. Left or right.
it's too bad that if they vehemently disagree with each other - that they can't compromise & just agree to not discuss politics with each other. that is if their marriage is strong enough....
damn - that's worse than her ranting, imo. hopefully, they can work it out.