Women of USMB.....How many of you have been sexually harassed?

[charwin95]

I’ve been sued for rape. This very sexy and very pretty wwoman claimed I took advantage of her while she was drunk then took her to my hotel room. This is a very long story ————-Fast forward————— those video cameras in those hallways and lobby exonerated me.

 

[MaryL]

Yeah, going back 40 years or so, because that was part of the program.

 

[Bonzi]

Most or all men are ***** animals. I don’t care who they are. Priest, pastors, teachers etc etc etc.
Lots of married men or single men here or out there will tell you I love my wife or my girl friend. I will never cheat. True.
But they never been tested, tempted, lure or flirted by a pretty sexy woman.

That is the biggest load of crap. How old are you?

I have a VERY large pools of real friends from several categories here in US and overseas. I also know a very large number of people ( not friends) from different races, cultures and different careers. Like sex therapist or marriage consultants. Most or all maybe knew one at the most 2 or none.
How about 9 of marriage consultants, 4 sex therapist and male OBGYN doctors 35. That is just here in US.
I’m talking about real life experience.
Pick ANY men or any members here that you know or even your husband. In front of you he will tell you he will never cheat. I don’t believe that. If you are not there then a young curvy pretty and gorgeous woman flirt with him. Can you or anybody guarantee he will say no?
If your husband or boyfriend watched pornos. What do you think he is dreaming?

If you care about your marriage, you'll resist.. Just most marriages are not that strong.

Fantasy is one thing. Action is another

 

[charwin95]

Most or all men are ***** animals. I don’t care who they are. Priest, pastors, teachers etc etc etc.
Lots of married men or single men here or out there will tell you I love my wife or my girl friend. I will never cheat. True.
But they never been tested, tempted, lure or flirted by a pretty sexy woman.

That is the biggest load of crap. How old are you?

I have a VERY large pools of real friends from several categories here in US and overseas. I also know a very large number of people ( not friends) from different races, cultures and different careers. Like sex therapist or marriage consultants. Most or all maybe knew one at the most 2 or none.
How about 9 of marriage consultants, 4 sex therapist and male OBGYN doctors 35. That is just here in US.
I’m talking about real life experience.
Pick ANY men or any members here that you know or even your husband. In front of you he will tell you he will never cheat. I don’t believe that. If you are not there then a young curvy pretty and gorgeous woman flirt with him. Can you or anybody guarantee he will say no?
If your husband or boyfriend watched pornos. What do you think he is dreaming?

If you care about your marriage, you'll resist.. Just most marriages are not that strong.

Fantasy is one thing. Action is another

Understand. Truth hurts.

 

[Bonzi]

Most or all men are ***** animals. I don’t care who they are. Priest, pastors, teachers etc etc etc.
Lots of married men or single men here or out there will tell you I love my wife or my girl friend. I will never cheat. True.
But they never been tested, tempted, lure or flirted by a pretty sexy woman.

That is the biggest load of crap. How old are you?

I have a VERY large pools of real friends from several categories here in US and overseas. I also know a very large number of people ( not friends) from different races, cultures and different careers. Like sex therapist or marriage consultants. Most or all maybe knew one at the most 2 or none.
How about 9 of marriage consultants, 4 sex therapist and male OBGYN doctors 35. That is just here in US.
I’m talking about real life experience.
Pick ANY men or any members here that you know or even your husband. In front of you he will tell you he will never cheat. I don’t believe that. If you are not there then a young curvy pretty and gorgeous woman flirt with him. Can you or anybody guarantee he will say no?
If your husband or boyfriend watched pornos. What do you think he is dreaming?

If you care about your marriage, you'll resist.. Just most marriages are not that strong.

Fantasy is one thing. Action is another

Understand. Truth hurts.

No it doesn't, not to a woman with a mind grounded in reality. I was never under the delusion that any man only had eyes for me, but I do have a man that will resist temptation because he values our relationship. Maybe men just need to wait to marry until they are over 50

 

[Likkmee]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

Have you been sexually harassed?

I can't recall it ever happening to me

Could that be, when inappropriate sexual advances happen to men, they really don't feel violated?

I can tell you dozens of times I've been a victim of a butt grope. Never offended me, hell, many times I turned and said Thanks!

Hell yeah man. You know how many times i had my crotch or ass grabbed by a chick at the club when i was younger?
If i was doing that? I would have gotten my ass beat by the bouncers and possibly banned from the establishment or sent to jail.
If a man says he got harassed by a little sexy 115 lb girl? He would be laughed at. I would laugh too, honestly. But thats just part of our societal double standards lol
People want to be equal... until they are.

What if you were 15 and being sexually harassed by a 35 year old woman who was not particularly attractive?

I'd just ask for a BJ since the only think I'd be looking at would be the top of her head. Plus at 15 I'd be done and back on my mini bike in about 15 seconds

 

[BuckToothMoron]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

The reason nobody cares about men being sexually harassed by women is the same reason nobody cares about criminals breaking into jails.

 

[BuckToothMoron]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

Have you been sexually harassed?

I can't recall it ever happening to me

Could that be, when inappropriate sexual advances happen to men, they really don't feel violated?

I can tell you dozens of times I've been a victim of a butt grope. Never offended me, hell, many times I turned and said Thanks!

Hell yeah man. You know how many times i had my crotch or ass grabbed by a chick at the club when i was younger?
If i was doing that? I would have gotten my ass beat by the bouncers and possibly banned from the establishment or sent to jail.
If a man says he got harassed by a little sexy 115 lb girl? He would be laughed at. I would laugh too, honestly. But thats just part of our societal double standards lol
People want to be equal... until they are.

No. The reason women making sexually advances towards men is not a concern is because it is not a threat to men. By and large men are bigger and stronger than women and can physically force themselves on women. Women can force themselves on men, but it is not done in a physically intimidating manner.

 

[koshergrl]

Sexual harassment - or behavior that a "victim" might believe is sexual harassment - is ubiquitous.

"In that outfit, you look good enough to eat!"

Is that sexual harassment? Would many women feel flattered by the remark? Would that depend on who is making it?

I have known many women at work (when I worked) who assumed that certain "slights" were because they were a woman, when the fact was the slights were because of their job performance, competence, or attitude, and had nothing to do with gender.

But let's be honest, how many women today are in positions of power and authority that they have no business being in, just because "Management" wanted to elevate a woman? Chiefs of Police? Heads of departments? They are all over the place.

You could say the same thing about any minority in the professional world. Including schools and human services...where ability and integrity come second to race and sexual proclivities. No wonder schools and child welfare managed foster networks are conclaves of child abuse.

 

[charwin95]

Most or all men are ***** animals. I don’t care who they are. Priest, pastors, teachers etc etc etc.
Lots of married men or single men here or out there will tell you I love my wife or my girl friend. I will never cheat. True.
But they never been tested, tempted, lure or flirted by a pretty sexy woman.

That is the biggest load of crap. How old are you?

I have a VERY large pools of real friends from several categories here in US and overseas. I also know a very large number of people ( not friends) from different races, cultures and different careers. Like sex therapist or marriage consultants. Most or all maybe knew one at the most 2 or none.
How about 9 of marriage consultants, 4 sex therapist and male OBGYN doctors 35. That is just here in US.
I’m talking about real life experience.
Pick ANY men or any members here that you know or even your husband. In front of you he will tell you he will never cheat. I don’t believe that. If you are not there then a young curvy pretty and gorgeous woman flirt with him. Can you or anybody guarantee he will say no?
If your husband or boyfriend watched pornos. What do you think he is dreaming?

If you care about your marriage, you'll resist.. Just most marriages are not that strong.

Fantasy is one thing. Action is another

Understand. Truth hurts.

No it doesn't, not to a woman with a mind grounded in reality. I was never under the delusion that any man only had eyes for me, but I do have a man that will resist temptation because he values our relationship. Maybe men just need to wait to marry until they are over 50

What guarantee do you have that your man will resist temptations? By looking at you in the eye? LOL.
I heard lots of married men ————Oh I love my wife I will never cheat. That’s just a load of BS.
We have bachelors party and other celebrations with strippers all the time. Every men attending married or single will try to grab that butt.
I’m not saying that all men are the same but at very high percentage ————— Married men cheat. And so are married women.

 

[Esmeralda]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

Have you been sexually harassed?

I can't recall it ever happening to me

Could that be, when inappropriate sexual advances happen to men, they really don't feel violated?

I can tell you dozens of times I've been a victim of a butt grope. Never offended me, hell, many times I turned and said Thanks!

Ewwwww! What kind of women do you hang out with? This happened in the workplace or at the local tavern?

 

[strollingbones]

so i stop at a new local hot dog stand outside one of the popular lumber stores...when i go to pay the guy tells me just to drop the money in his apron which i did...then i said....you best be careful some women is gonna scream sexual harrasment....he was shocked then said...that shit is getting outta hand lol