Women of USMB.....How many of you have been sexually harassed?

[miketx]

Ok, here goes, I never told this to anyone, but should have told my parents. When I was about 8 or 9 we lived in Hot Springs and there was one kid named Avant, or something like that. He was around 18 and had a car. He was always hanging out with the kiddies showing them cool stuff like how to make rockets with CO2 cartridges. One day he drove up to the house where I lived and asked me if I wanted to go bird hunting with him. I said sure and went in and grabbed my BB gun. He drove to a secluded spot in the cemetery and stopped the car. Then instead of bb guns, he pulled out his pecker and started masturbating in the car! I started crying and then he grabs my crotch and started rubbing me! I cried more and screamed and he stopped and took me home. Never saw the sick **** again and never told anyone. I think that's what made me start stuttering for my whole life. To this day if I found him I would beat that sick bastard half to death!

That is what child molesters did. Sorry you had that happen to you- shouldn't happen to any kid.

I've had nightmares where I found that mf'r and gave him what he needed.

 

[rightwinger]

What did he do?

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He tried to touch me, between my legs. He thought I was an office clerk, most likely because of my casual attire that afternoon. Regardless, such conduct is not part of our core values.

What an A-hole

 

[rightwinger]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

Have you been sexually harassed?

I can't recall it ever happening to me

Could that be, when inappropriate sexual advances happen to men, they really don't feel violated?

I can tell you dozens of times I've been a victim of a butt grope. Never offended me, hell, many times I turned and said Thanks!

Hell yeah man. You know how many times i had my crotch or ass grabbed by a chick at the club when i was younger?
If i was doing that? I would have gotten my ass beat by the bouncers and possibly banned from the establishment or sent to jail.
If a man says he got harassed by a little sexy 115 lb girl? He would be laughed at. I would laugh too, honestly. But thats just part of our societal double standards lol
People want to be equal... until they are.

What if you were 15 and being sexually harassed by a 35 year old woman who was not particularly attractive?

I had a 5 months relationship with my 35 yo very attractive, pretty shapely and married teacher when I was 16. I was home schooled because of fighting from one private school to another till there are no more private schools both Souther California and Miami counties.

That said......... It was an awesome experience. I had gfs of my age at that time but 35 yo woman with experience is like losing my virginity for the second time. My older sister (9 years older) caught us and that is how the relationship ended.

She went to jail briefly not sure how long but my parents paid her off to move somewhere and not to bother me.

I posted this story sometime in late 2015 I think.

That is why I posted "not particularly attractive"
I assumed most men are like you (and I) who at that age would love having sex with an attractive 35 year old woman
To match a woman's perspective, I thought I had to ask about what it would be like for a boy to be harassed by an older woman that is not sexually attractive

 

[charwin95]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

Have you been sexually harassed?

I can't recall it ever happening to me

Could that be, when inappropriate sexual advances happen to men, they really don't feel violated?

I can tell you dozens of times I've been a victim of a butt grope. Never offended me, hell, many times I turned and said Thanks!

Hell yeah man. You know how many times i had my crotch or ass grabbed by a chick at the club when i was younger?
If i was doing that? I would have gotten my ass beat by the bouncers and possibly banned from the establishment or sent to jail.
If a man says he got harassed by a little sexy 115 lb girl? He would be laughed at. I would laugh too, honestly. But thats just part of our societal double standards lol
People want to be equal... until they are.

Actually women are more daring and aggressive today than ever.

Women still grab my crotch and my buttocks today. Sadly only in Vegas. Go to Las Vegas clubs like in cosmopolitan, planet hollywood, bellagio etc etc etc. Where bunch of single shapely and pretty women from all over the country or world go to a club with no male partners goes wild. I mean really wild.
You’ll be wondering where are the mens? Are all playing video games?
On the dance floor tons of women are dancing with women because of male shortages. It’s like 10 to 1 ratio. Around 11 pm when alcohol spiirits starts taking over. They rubbed their butts to your crotch, rubbed their crotch to your tights or knees, grab your hands then guide you where they want and sometimes 2 or 3 of them at the same time. Lordy you thought you are in heaven.
Hands all over you like chest and everywhere. At 2 am or after you better be ready that is unless you are still standing or have not consumed too much alcohol that even 100 mg viagra will not work. This is when they will physically kick you in the ass.

I know that some female or male members here might not like to hear this but I just want to share the reality in life.

They did not create—— —— What Happens In Vegas Stay In Vegas ———— for nothing.

 

[JOSweetHeart]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

To me, what is done to a man should most definitely be addressed. I feel for those who have been screwed because anything a female says is what so much of the public will go flying with whether its true or not.

God bless you always!!!

Holly

P.S. To answer the question, no, I have not been sexually harassed.

 

[rightwinger]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

To me, what is done to a man should most definitely be addressed. I feel for those who have been screwed because anything a female says is what so much of the public will go flying with whether its true or not.

God bless you always!!!

Holly

P.S. To answer the question, no, I have not been sexually harassed.

James Otto seems very friendly

 

[charwin95]

Have you been sexually harassed?

I can't recall it ever happening to me

Could that be, when inappropriate sexual advances happen to men, they really don't feel violated?

I can tell you dozens of times I've been a victim of a butt grope. Never offended me, hell, many times I turned and said Thanks!

Hell yeah man. You know how many times i had my crotch or ass grabbed by a chick at the club when i was younger?
If i was doing that? I would have gotten my ass beat by the bouncers and possibly banned from the establishment or sent to jail.
If a man says he got harassed by a little sexy 115 lb girl? He would be laughed at. I would laugh too, honestly. But thats just part of our societal double standards lol
People want to be equal... until they are.

What if you were 15 and being sexually harassed by a 35 year old woman who was not particularly attractive?

I had a 5 months relationship with my 35 yo very attractive, pretty shapely and married teacher when I was 16. I was home schooled because of fighting from one private school to another till there are no more private schools both Souther California and Miami counties.

That said......... It was an awesome experience. I had gfs of my age at that time but 35 yo woman with experience is like losing my virginity for the second time. My older sister (9 years older) caught us and that is how the relationship ended.

She went to jail briefly not sure how long but my parents paid her off to move somewhere and not to bother me.

I posted this story sometime in late 2015 I think.

That is why I posted "not particularly attractive"
I assumed most men are like you (and I) who at that age would love having sex with an attractive 35 year old woman
To match a woman's perspective, I thought I had to ask about what it would be like for a boy to be harassed by an older woman that is not sexually attractive

Understand but I just have to post my experience.

Honestly I don’t know how I would react in my situations with unattractive 35 yo women because I was showering when she enter the shower room and started raping me.

If she was unattractive it coulda/woulda be a nightmare and I will run to my parents right away.

The Hottest Teachers Caught Sleeping With Students

 

[deanrd]

In my discussions with women, most have stories of times they have been sexually harassed to varying degrees

It can range from rude statements to touching to near rape

How did you handle it?
Would you prefer to just handle it yourself or do you encourage society to get involved?
What do you think should be done with the men?

Something related.

Since I retired, I go to an art studio There is a dentist there named Bob who is a couple of years younger than me. Last weekend, we were both there, working and talking and he said he was angry at some woman he was talking about because she made a scene. So I asked him what it was she did. He said he kissed her and she screamed and yelled like he was trying to rape her.

So I asked him if he had her permission or did he just grab her and kiss her. So he looked at me like I was crazy and said, "How else are you going to kiss her if you don't grab her first?" I told him you don't just grab a woman and kiss her. And he said that's ridiculous. If you didn't, no one would ever kiss. I realized you can't talk to this guy, who by the way, I've learned not to talk politics because he voted for Trump.

Now I've kissed and more a lot of very attractive women over the years. Not hundreds, but more then a few. You have to woo them. Believe me, when they want to be kissed, they will let you know. You don't need to grab.

But looking at Bob, I think his problem is going above his pay grade. If you know what I mean.

 

[rightwinger]

In my discussions with women, most have stories of times they have been sexually harassed to varying degrees

It can range from rude statements to touching to near rape

How did you handle it?
Would you prefer to just handle it yourself or do you encourage society to get involved?
What do you think should be done with the men?

Something related.

Since I retired, I go to an art studio There is a dentist there named Bob who is a couple of years younger than me. Last weekend, we were both there, working and talking and he said he was angry at some woman he was talking about because she made a scene. So I asked him what it was she did. He said he kissed her and she screamed and yelled like he was trying to rape her.

So I asked him if he had her permission or did he just grab her and kiss her. So he looked at me like I was crazy and said, "How else are you going to kiss her if you don't grab her first?" I told him you don't just grab a woman and kiss her. And he said that's ridiculous. If you didn't, no one would ever kiss. I realized you can't talk to this guy, who by the way, I've learned not to talk politics because he voted for Trump.

Now I've kissed and more a lot of very attractive women over the years. Not hundreds, but more then a few. You have to woo them. Believe me, when they want to be kissed, they will let you know. You don't need to grab.

But looking at Bob, I think his problem is going above his pay grade. If you know what I mean.

Sounds like Trump

 

[Bonzi]

Most or all men are ***** animals. I don’t care who they are. Priest, pastors, teachers etc etc etc.
Lots of married men or single men here or out there will tell you I love my wife or my girl friend. I will never cheat. True.
But they never been tested, tempted, lure or flirted by a pretty sexy woman.

That is the biggest load of crap. How old are you?

 

[Bonzi]

I've been cornered, groped, money put in my shirt. In each case I made waves, all were at work and never got fired. Never filed any complaints.

A nurse felt me up at the dentist once. Are a man's pecks an erogenous zone?

I don't know, I'm not a man!

I wonder, what if you're both?

What would make you think that? Do I look manly???

 

[mudwhistle]

I've been cornered, groped, money put in my shirt. In each case I made waves, all were at work and never got fired. Never filed any complaints.

A nurse felt me up at the dentist once. Are a man's pecks an erogenous zone?

I don't know, I'm not a man!

I wonder, what if you're both?

What would make you think that? Do I look manly???

I don't know what you look like.
I was posing a hypothetical.....which wasn't even directed to you.
I'm sorry but this exchange seems to have taken a weird twist that I don't want to participate in further.
Hope you don't mind.

 

[rightwinger]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

Feel free to bring it up.

Personally I have only been sexually harrassed one time- and that was when I was in a gay bar as a straight man watching a 49'rs game with a friend(they took the game seriously but still grabbed at my ass).

Gave me a whole new perspective of what every single one of my female friends told me happened to them at straight bars all the time.

I have never been sexually harassed by a man or a woman at work. I have never met a woman who couldn't tell me stories of being harrassed at work.

That reminds me of probably the only time I was sexually harassed. I was 22 and could have passed for 17 and was visiting SF for the first time by myself. I wandered over to this place called Castro Street and found myself surrounded by gays. Leather, studded collars, bare chests,,,,something out of a Village People video. They were hooting and hollering and propositioning me from cars
I literally ran out of there

 

[JOSweetHeart]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

To me, what is done to a man should most definitely be addressed. I feel for those who have been screwed because anything a female says is what so much of the public will go flying with whether its true or not.

God bless you always!!!

Holly

P.S. To answer the question, no, I have not been sexually harassed.

James Otto seems very friendly

He is, but totally respectful which is just another thing for me to love about him.

God bless you and him always!!!

Holly

 

[rightwinger]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

To me, what is done to a man should most definitely be addressed. I feel for those who have been screwed because anything a female says is what so much of the public will go flying with whether its true or not.

God bless you always!!!

Holly

P.S. To answer the question, no, I have not been sexually harassed.

James Otto seems very friendly

He is, but totally respectful which is just another thing for me to love about him.

God bless you and him always!!!

Holly

I thought you were young enough to be his daughter

 

[Peach]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

A few times I have, was very lucky, had a way out. I know a couple men that were, all but one did not want to make a 'big deal' out of it. But the woman in question crossed the wrong guy, and was O-U-T. Good for that business.

 

[JOSweetHeart]

Why does harassment of men never come up?
Nobody gives a shit until the man was to return the favor, then they deserve to lose constitutional rights, their reputation and possibly their job from being in jail.

To me, what is done to a man should most definitely be addressed. I feel for those who have been screwed because anything a female says is what so much of the public will go flying with whether its true or not.

God bless you always!!!

Holly

P.S. To answer the question, no, I have not been sexually harassed.

James Otto seems very friendly

He is, but totally respectful which is just another thing for me to love about him.

God bless you and him always!!!

Holly

I thought you were young enough to be his daughter

We have almost a nine year difference.

God bless you always!!!

Holly

 

[charwin95]

Most or all men are ***** animals. I don’t care who they are. Priest, pastors, teachers etc etc etc.
Lots of married men or single men here or out there will tell you I love my wife or my girl friend. I will never cheat. True.
But they never been tested, tempted, lure or flirted by a pretty sexy woman.

That is the biggest load of crap. How old are you?

I have a VERY large pools of real friends from several categories here in US and overseas. I also know a very large number of people ( not friends) from different races, cultures and different careers. Like sex therapist or marriage consultants. Most or all maybe knew one at the most 2 or none.
How about 9 of marriage consultants, 4 sex therapist and male OBGYN doctors 35. That is just here in US.
I’m talking about real life experience.
Pick ANY men or any members here that you know or even your husband. In front of you he will tell you he will never cheat. I don’t believe that. If you are not there then a young curvy pretty and gorgeous woman flirt with him. Can you or anybody guarantee he will say no?
If your husband or boyfriend watched pornos. What do you think he is dreaming?

 

[Ava]

In my discussions with women, most have stories of times they have been sexually harassed to varying degrees

It can range from rude statements to touching to near rape

How did you handle it?
Would you prefer to just handle it yourself or do you encourage society to get involved?
What do you think should be done with the men?

Way too many times, but I never considered myself a victim. Those powerful men were in many ways the very reason I decided to go into business for myself and I loved it and never looked back. And I never stopped liking and loving men. I would rather be around them anytime than most women who have harassed me in other ways. Green-eyed jealousy also exists in the workplace. But if you are the boss, then no problem.

 

[RodISHI]

Way too many times, but I never considered myself a victim. Those powerful men were in many ways the very reason I decided to go into business for myself and I loved it and never looked back. And I never stopped liking and loving men. I would rather be around them anytime than most women who have harassed me in other ways. Green-eyed jealousy also exists in the workplace. But if you are the boss, then no problem.

Same here on the eventually owning my own business. It does solve a lot of problems yet can create some too if you come across a predator that doesn't work for you but works for the one's you contract for.

That green eyed monster comes in both sexes which can also create small issues along the way if you don't have good people to work with.

In my discussions with women, most have stories of times they have been sexually harassed to varying degrees

It can range from rude statements to touching to near rape

How did you handle it?
Would you prefer to just handle it yourself or do you encourage society to get involved?
What do you think should be done with the men?

Like most who responded it used to happen frequently but the only one's that really matter are the one's that can over power you physically or have some sort of authority that they can make trouble for you.