Women: How do you like it?

[dilloduck]

Just an ex-boyfriend. My husband is the only husband I've ever had. He's a pretty good one. I think I'll keep him.

Is you ex B/F a psycho too ??????

 

[-Cp]

Anyone care to put the train back on the tracks in this thread?

It's called "Women: how do you like it"? And ends up having folks talk about marriages... jeesh...

 

[Nienna]

Is you ex B/F a psycho too ??????

Just an alcoholic. But you never know... his biological mother was suicidal.

 

[Nienna]

Anyone care to put the train back on the tracks in this thread?

It's called "Women: how do you like it"? And ends up having folks talk about marriages... jeesh...

Maybe there's a lesson here? Maybe women "like it" in committed relationships?

 

[dilloduck]

Maybe there's a lesson here? Maybe women "like it" in committed relationships?

Beat me to it,Mom.

 

[Nienna]

Beat me to it,Mom.

:hug:

 

[dilloduck]

:hug:

For some reason I don't think that was exactly what Cp was looking for tho !

 

[-Cp]

Maybe there's a lesson here? Maybe women "like it" in committed relationships?

I assumed that was a "gimme"...

 

[dilloduck]

I assumed that was a "gimme"...

They wiggled out--found a loophole ! :teeth:

good try tho!

 

[Avatar4321]

You mean find an equal to you? I get that. Most people are looking for that I think??

Yeah basically thats what I want. Although thinking about it I think that might be alittle elitist way to look at this.

I know there is this girl that likes me. and dont get me wrong she is a cool girl but she just isnt want im looking for and i was just thinking i wouldnt want to say she just wasnt my equal because that just sounds mean. but in a way i dont think it would be a equal relationship. its hard to explain.

 

[Avatar4321]

No sheiit! Ran into the ex the other night at daughter's performance. Haven't seen or spoken to him other than to get one of the kids on the phone in the past 2 years, (since the youngest turned 18. ) Lo and behold, a message on the machine last night, "Call me, if you want..." LOL! I. think. NOT. Gee he's married with 2 little kids, I was with my 'friend.' For crying out loud, it's been over 10 year! It has gotten better, he used to call all the time.

Methinks the leopard hasn't changed his spots!

Can you blame him for still being able to recognize a good woman?

 

[Avatar4321]

LOL mine had three personality disorders, and I have to think I was insane then, but ultimateley I realize I was only 20 and at 20 most people are lucky if they know their own names much less recognize Borderline psychosis disorder...

Dang thats nuts... how do you define a personality disorder anyway?

 

[Avatar4321]

Maybe there's a lesson here? Maybe women "like it" in committed relationships?

They do???? I thought they liked it with complete strangers...:

 

[dilloduck]

Dang thats nuts... how do you define a personality disorder anyway?

Roughly its a maladaptive characture trait that is destructive to the person and those involved with the person.

 

[Nienna]

Yeah basically thats what I want. Although thinking about it I think that might be alittle elitist way to look at this.

I know there is this girl that likes me. and dont get me wrong she is a cool girl but she just isnt want im looking for and i was just thinking i wouldnt want to say she just wasnt my equal because that just sounds mean. but in a way i dont think it would be a equal relationship. its hard to explain.

This is NOT an elitist attitude. DO NOT make the mistake of marrying someone who doesn't "fit" you. Marriage is a hard job, and you need all the advantages you can get going into it.

 

[GotZoom]

Dang thats nuts... how do you define a personality disorder anyway?

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[Joz]

This is NOT an elitist attitude. DO NOT make the mistake of marrying someone who doesn't "fit" you. Marriage is a hard job, and you need all the advantages you can get going into it.

(Must spread rep around)

 

[Nienna]

(Must spread rep around)

Thanks, Joz. Hope it can help someone avoid some really HARD lessons.

 

[dmp]

This is NOT an elitist attitude. DO NOT make the mistake of marrying someone who doesn't "fit" you. Marriage is a hard job, and you need all the advantages you can get going into it.

Oh HELL Yes. You nailed it. NEVER...under any circumstances marry a person for who you hope they'll be; don't marry for potential. Sometimes people choose others in hopes that, after enough time and sex and prayer and sex and time that person will 'become' somebody who REALLY 'gets' them.

:-/

 

[Nienna]

Oh HELL Yes. You nailed it. NEVER...under any circumstances marry a person for who you hope they'll be; don't marry for potential. Sometimes people choose others in hopes that, after enough time and sex and prayer and sex and time that person will 'become' somebody who REALLY 'gets' them.

:-/

Explore their personalities, don't marry SOLELY for "feelings," but make sure the feelings are there. Listen to their families. Study their families.

But the very first step, Avatar, you already seem to have grasped. The first thing you have to do is KNOW YOURSELF. Know what you need. Know what you believe. Know what you can live with, and what you can't live without. If a potential mate doesn't meet those things, then you're in for a rough road, and heartache.