No, the lesson in this thread is #1, if you're stupid enough to have an affair with a married man, keep your fucking mouth shut. And if you must talk to somebody, it probably shouldn't be a member of your church. And #2, if you want to engage in extramarital sex and have already spilled the beans to someone in the congregation of said church, join a DIFFERENT FUCKING CHURCH and KEEP YOUR STUPID MOUTH SHUT.
Having known a few women who engaged in extra-marital affairs I can say that every single one I've known is a self-centered, self-serving bitch who thinks nothing in the world is more interesting to other people than her sex life and her subsequent boo-hooing over that sex life.
Always the caring compassionate conservative Christian, aren't you Always A Bitch? So, you're telling us that she shouldn't talk to anyone in her church if she doesn't want it talked about? Well......what the fuck is a priest for if you can't confess to them? And......if the priest is going to blab about what you've done, he's really not a priest is he? It actually makes them a gossip and a busy body.
As far as sex? Well......I've studied enough history to know that if God doesn't want something around, it doesn't survive very long. The Kama Sutra is a book about nothing BUT sex, as well as the Song of Solomon, as well as Taoist techniques for tantric sex. Matter of fact, weren't we told to go forth and multiply? Kinda blows a hole in the theory that sex is a sin, because if it was, we shouldn't do it, and therefore the human race would die out.
As far as adultery? Well.......if one was to look at the 10 Commandments, you would see that after acknowledging (3 times as a matter of fact), who God is and what He wants us to know about Him, the next one is "thou shalt not kill", but, that's actually a mistranslation of the original, which was "thou shalt not murder". The rest of the 10 Commandments is guidelines for showing you how to avoid being murdered, or committing murder. As far as adultery? Well.......it's quite a bit more than mere sex. It's actually taking the love that someone gives you, and then secretly sharing that with someone else. Doesn't matter.......sex, coffee, friendship, etc....well.....if you're sharing feelings and emotions and dreams with someone on the sly away from someone you love, then it's adultery.
Sex is just a biological function.
And Sunnidiot........what the fuck makes a dirtbag motherfucker like you think that the group always knows better than the individual? Until you've walked some distance in another person's sandals, you have NO RIGHT TO JUDGE THEM.
But.......seeing as you belong to a rigid belief system based on terrorist actions, and death, I can kinda understand your stupidity.