Andrew2382
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- Oct 1, 2008
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You need to clue it up. I'm really clear on where my daughter is, sexually. She's 15, and I know PRECISELY how far she's gone, physically. I realize I'm fighting a losing battle against her hormones and horniness.
How do you know how far she's gone?
Having said that, the fact of the matter is that a teacher or other adults have a responsibility in our interactions with young people, particularly teenagers, not to abuse our positions of power and trust. No matter how badly you might have wanted to bang your 10th grade teacher, IT IS PART OF HER JOB TO NEVER CROSS THAT LINE. The idea that an adult crossing that line is acceptable simply because the child wants to is complete and utter bullshit.
No one is arguing that...and yes the adult should never cross that line...it's wrong. Yet that doesn't dismiss the fact that if the adult ever does cross that line the teenager isn't going to take it.
Just like, even though I know that my daughter will be at some point sexually active, it is part of my job to do what I can to postpone that until she's as emotionally mature as possible. It's also my job to prepare her for that inevitability in such a way that she is able to manage her sexual activities responsibly, and so she doesn't damage herself.
My daughter will be driving soon. Since that's the case, should I just put a 5th of Jack and the car keys in her hand today so she can get started?
You and others are engaged in sexually biased diminishing of the victimization of young men. It's crap.
the more you try to postpone it the more she is going to want to do it. Educate her on it so she can make an informed decision and be ready for whatever comes at her.
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