I don't need a basis.......if I see someone standing next to a STOP sign holding a sign that says "This is not a STOP sign" I don't need to establish a basis before I point and say "Oh, look!....something stupid!".....everyone that looks where I point will immediately know what I am referring to.......
likewise, everyone (and I expect that is all inclusive) that knows someone who holds a different belief than that of the parents she was raised by, is aware that everyone is free to make their own choices about what they believe in.......saying they don't is inherently stupid.....sorry.......
You missed the point entirely.
I never mentioned not having a choice. The discussion was about "deciding" in what to believe in. My parents are believers and I am not. So, I agree everyone is free to believe what makes sense to them. How you turned what I said, into the idea that we aren't free to believe in what makes sense to us, is baffling to me.
If when I said "we don't decide what we believe", you understood that as "we don't get the choice to believe what makes sense to us". I'm sorry you read it that way. That is not at all what I am saying.
The idea that we "decide" what to believe, as if we just look at these two things.......A and B...........and say "I don't think I like A, I am going to believe in B". That is my whole point. To say that we decide what we believe, insinuates that we can just "decide" to believe the opposite for an arbitrary reason. What a person believes, for any proposition, is a process of weighing information, comparing it to what they already understand, and giving it a likelihood of being true or not true. Not an absolute!
Like I've said before, theism and atheism is not placing a stake in the ground and saying this "is" or "isn't" true.