What is racist in your eyes?
That act of hating an entire race or an individual of a differing race for the simple fact that they aren't of your own race.
When is it OK to talk about racism?
Pretty much any time and any where... when it's appropriate to do so. Same with politics and religion.
When is OK to speak out and/or be outraged about racism?
When you're deservedly outraged. And by deservedly, I mean with logic and reason.
So there you have it. I figured I'd get that out of the way before recounting some pretty cool experiences which may or may not have any bearing on this thread LOL.
Two of my best friends in college were the guys in the dorm room next door. I met them when they came knocking on our door asking for rolling papers. I'm like "what makes you think we even smoke?" He said dude- we smell it all the time.

So there began a years long friendship with a couple of very cool people. We talked quite frankly about race and race relations. This was the 70's mind you. I learned a lot from those guys and their friends and I hope that they learned something from me.
A group of us went to the college basketball game once. During the National Anthem, my black friends remained seated chanting "not 'till we're free". My roommate and I stood in respect. We didn't talk about it afterwards because we didn't need to. We understood each other and had a mutual respect in such matters. Another time we got together, smoked a bunch of weed, and watched a documentary on the KKK, the Old South, Racism, etc. Sure I was uncomfortable, but we had a frank and honest discussion about it. It was all cool.
My fraternity had one black member- probably the first ever for our chapter. He asked me to be his Big Brother and I said of course. Anyway- he fell behind in his dues and didn't come to the meeting so our bylaws dictated that we have a formal hearing. He asked me to represent him at this hearing. Well, he never showed up for that either. But I got up there and defended him, asked that he be given another chance, and in so many words accused my own fraternity brothers of racism. Well, they kicked him out. Afterwards a couple of guys came up to me and said I did a good job and they admired me for standing up for the black fraternity member.
Ah- here's another. After college... I was at a bar with a couple of friends (one black). We were real stoned and having a couple of beers in a crowded college bar down in Knoxville.
Knoxville, TN in the 70's. There were quite a few jocks staring us down, especially the "darkie". I had my beer bottle in hand, ready to bust some heads if they gave my friend any shit. We decided it was best to make a hasty exit LOL.
Just rambling... I would not hesitate to go to bat for a good person and friend no mater what their ethnicity.
Sure there are blacks that I hate. Like the one that beat my brother near dead several years ago. He was a bad person.
Maybe more later when I get good and likkered up.
