We're sending our radio signals in every direction for almost a hundred years now. So why aren't we picking up any from other species?
Because earth's combined total of radio signals fade to way below the cosmic background levels within 10 light years of earth. There are only a few stars within that radius. It's very likely nobody knows we're here.
The reason I worry about is simple enough: nearby alien species with technology realize there are hostile alien races who send invasion or attack fleets to detected intelligent planets for conquest or annihilation so keep their radio transmissions to a local variety, not ones that radiate out into space. Imagine a dot representing our Sun with lots of red dots all around representing hostile alien races. Could be on their way right now. On the more cheerful side, could be a friendly one on the way too who'll say "SHHHHH!"
Caution is warranted.
The SETI program can't find earthlike planets. It can only find powerful beacons that have been deliberately set up to make contact. More optimistic people thought we'd find lots of such beacons out there, from many races who wanted to make contact. And we've find none. It's like driving into a strange town and finding it completely empty of people. The silence is a little creepy.
Possibilities:
1. Intelligent life arises much less often than we thought.
2. We hit the cosmic lottery, and were the first to build a technological civilization.
3. Technological civilizations always end up destroying themselves.
4. Earth is considered like a zoo, and the whole galactic area is quarantined.
5. A few paranoid xenophobic races lay low, and then annihilate any upstarts they detect. It only takes one group of killers to wipe out all the friendly races.