I dont live in America. I live in the Uk where teenage girls with abusive parents need all the support that they can be given.
I live in America where we have teenage girls with abusive parents that need support also, many of them have ended up on drugs due to living on the streets.
At any given time I might have 2 or 3 of them living in my house with me, my wife and my own daughter. I provide them counseling, treatment, medical care and compassion (nothing indecent)
I have one that I am paying for her college right now a she fights to get back on her feet.
I do not mind doing this or spending the money that is required to get them well both physically and psychologically.
And yet, I fight to keep from paying taxes to do this same thing. I think it should be up to citizens to take care of their own, it is the decent thing to do. It is not decent for me to decide that you can just afford to pay more and more to do this. There comes a point where forced charity can hurt those being forced to give.
I have no idea why my wife continues to let me and my daughter take on this roll in the community, last year the cost to me out of pocket was enough for me to have purchased a new BMW, instead I have 4 girls with a fresh start on life, that know there is someone that honestly cares about them,, and,, an old truck to drive.
And I also think that if the government stepped back a bit, people would feel more compelled to step up and help. I refuse to believe that people are not generally good hearted creatures that will take care of others to the extent that they are financially able.
I would love to be able to afford a huge house with lots of rooms in it where I could help more at once, but I cant.
For those interested in looking in to doing something like this (and its needed) you can talk to doctors like I did and find ones that have compassion and would be willing to offer their services at a greatly reduced cost, you can also find psychologists that are willing to do the same. I have one that comes to the house twice a week to talk with the girls in their own private rooms.
If you cant afford to do it all by yourself, see if you can find friends that are as compassionate that would be willing to chip in for the care.
I think there is a great benefit to the girls when the help comes in a personal way instead of through some faceless government program that wont remember them at holidays, christmas or their birthdays.
One thing that must be mentioned before anyone considers bringing kids like this into your home. Hide anything of great value, during the first month it is very possible that the thought of stealing from you and getting high one more time is going to be greater than the thoughts of staying clean and actually creating a real life.