I donāt know anything about your kids and thereās a rule here against talking about other peopleās families so I have no comment.
I was a national merit finalist.
I know my kid will be privileged. She will go to the best private schools. She will have the best tutors. She will experience culture and experiences I couldnāt. She will have the right mentors and guidance to make it as far as she possibly can.
And why wouldnāt I do that for her? Itās just a judgement. But social mobility is falling. Itās falling a lot. And this is a BIG reason. I think a lot about it. Itās a problem. I donāt have an answer. People are doing what is logical for themselves, and the problem gets worse. I donāt care who I push where. Im saying this gets worse and if we donāt at least talk about it, it will hurt us in ways you donāt anticipate. We already are seeing them.