I don’t know anything about your kids and there’s a rule here against talking about other people’s families so I have no comment.
I was a national merit finalist.
I know my kid will be privileged. She will go to the best private schools. She will have the best tutors. She will experience culture and experiences I couldn’t. She will have the right mentors and guidance to make it as far as she possibly can.
And why wouldn’t I do that for her? It’s just a judgement. But social mobility is falling. It’s falling a lot. And this is a BIG reason. I think a lot about it. It’s a problem. I don’t have an answer. People are doing what is logical for themselves, and the problem gets worse. I don’t care who I push where. Im saying this gets worse and if we don’t at least talk about it, it will hurt us in ways you don’t anticipate. We already are seeing them.