As the topic of the thread is about providing services for weddings as a vendor and not merely attending them, I'm on firm ground. You want this thread to be about attending weddings, which it ain't.
Now, if you want to decline the RSVP to your nephew's wedding, that's all you. It's your responsibility to make amends at the family reunion, or to shun him altogether, adding to the drama.
But the question on the table is: What's so Christian about denying services to same sex weddings.
Are you ready, willing and able to participate in that debate, or do you want to move the goal posts to suit your own agenda?
No, the topic of this thread is one jerk trying to tell other Christians that he is the final arbiter of their beliefs. I ***** slapped him on that, using an appropriate, and in context, Scripture and all the atheists jumped in to whinge about how they are offended by religion. I am treating them with the respect they deserve, and still waiting for the pretend Christians, ie you, to actually read the Scripture I posted and admit that they are wrong.
There is absolutely no way for any Christian that actually reads 1 Corinthians 8 and prays about the meaning of the passage to stand up and tell another Christian they are wrong. The fact is that Paul, even though he actually had a direct line to Jesus, never once forced another Christian to do something simply because he knew it was right because he knew that doing so would be morally wrong.
You use Corinthians as an aegis. You advocate that Christians who do not agree with you and your single issue Christianity are false Christians. I wonder if you believe everything written in the New Testament must either be taken literally and that every precept laid forth in the New Testament must be followed.
Should we also be handling snakes? Do the Amish have it right and we are sinning by posting on this board? Should we all grow breads and shun rounding the corners of our heads?
I believe in the prime directive of Christianity. Love one another even as Christ loves us. If He refused service to any sinner, you might have a leg to stand on. If He refused to cast the first stone and called upon those without sin to do so, how is it you are without sin?
You are confusing clear cut spelled out doctrine, with grey areas, that are ambiguous.
Does the Bible say for Christians to handle snakes? No it does not. It says that people who believe and go in the name of Jesus, will drive out demons, pick up snakes, drink poison, and heal people with laying on of hands.
I would suggest that all of those have happened. But there is a huge difference between those things happening, and "Go pick up snakes in Church". The Bible does not say that. It's not there. You tell me where it clearly spells out that all Christians should go pick up snakes. Not there.
Now some have determined on their own, that the verse talking about such, means for them to do that. But that is a grey area. It's not spelled out they way. And I can meet Christians who believe in handling snakes, and we can talk and have a great time as fellow Christians, and yet disagree on this unimportant grey area.
On the other hand, there are other things that are spelled out with absolute unambiguous clarity.
Divorce and Adultery is a sin. Matthew 5:32. If you divorce and marry someone else, you are sinning against G-d. Period.
Screwing an animal, is a sin. Leviticus 18:23. If you lay with any non-human animal, you are sinning against G-d. Period.
Boinking your boyfriend, or girl friend, is a sin. 1 Corinthians 6:18. If you are shacking up and screwing your boy/girl friend, you are sinning against G-d. Period.
Homosexuality, is a sin. 1 Timothy 1:10. If you are a guy screwing a guy, or a girl doing whatever they call sex to another girl, you are sinning against G-d. Period.
Period.
These are clear cut, unambiguous, no grey area at all, absolute laws of G-d. They are not up for debate. You want to debate it, feel free when you stand before the judgement seat of Christ, and tell him how he was wrong. But as for me, you are wasting your time. I don't care.... I didn't write it. I'm not the one in charge. G-d is. Not me. Debating me, on what G-d himself said, is a waste of your time.
And when other Christians say "well you are not the arbitor of true faith", my answer no, I'm not, but G-d is, and he spelled it out.
Luke 6:46 Jesus spelled this out further.
“Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say? As for everyone who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice, I will show you what they are like. They are like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete.”
And lastly.... You said
Love one another even as Christ loves us. If He refused service to any sinner, you might have a leg to stand on. If He refused to cast the first stone and called upon those without sin to do so, how is it you are without sin?
What are you talking about? Jesus refused service to sinners several times.
Matthew 13:58
"And he did not do many miracles there because of their lack of faith."
Hey Jesus, why are you not healing people, and making wine out of water, and feeding thousands of hungry people?
Because you didn't have faith, so no service to you.
Or how about John 2:15
"So he made a whip out of cords, and drove all from the temple courts, both sheep and cattle; he scattered the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables."
He drove out of the temple dozens of people. Sorry, you are not welcome at the Lord's Temple. Get out and leave. Don't come back.
Here's the difference. We're not throwing stones dude. I'm not condemning anyone. Refusing to participate in evil, is not "judging". Refusing to abide people in the Church that are living completely anti-Christian lives, is not judging them. It's upholding G-d's law. We're not dragging people out of their beds, and marching them through the streets to a hangman's noose.
You want to live that way? Fine. Knock yourself out. But you can't ruin the church. You can't be apart of our group. Our group stands for something. It stands for Christ, and what he told us in the Bible.
And one last thing. The whole Bible is Jesus Christ. It was for Jesus the world was created. It was for Jesus the Israelites were selected. It was for Jesus the prophets were sent. It was for Jesus the words were written, and the books collected, and the Bible made. The reason Jesus didn't write his own book, is because the entire book is him. From Genesis, to Revelations, and everything in between, is all Jesus Christ
the Lord.