Yes, yes, yes...
Very nice...
All hail, the predictable and inevitable Godwin-isms and melodrama played-out by supporters of the perverse...
We've all heard your (the Homosexual Mafia's) Race-Card and Hitler-ite faux analogies before...
It doesn't excuse your perversity, nor, alternatively, the perversity that you advocate for...
This is a fight for the life and soul of the nation...
You see it as a fight for freedom to ACT perversely...
Your opposition sees it as a fight for freedom from public exposure TO perversity...
There is some merit in both perspectives...
Those opposed to homosexuality have thousands of years of history and the sacred texts and commentaries of several mainstream religions behind them...
I suspect that this fight - rather than being all-but-over - in a legal context - within the United States - is, in fact, just beginning, and may last for the next generation or more...
En garde...
You and I agree on many things [MENTION=20204]Kondor3[/MENTION]. This is not going to be one of them...
Both of us can live with that, I'm sure.
I never enjoy parting-company with folks, when they are so closely matched on other issue(s), but that comes with the territory, when one holds a wide diversity of Left, Right and Center -leaning viewpoints.
I can respect your opinions on this one, and respect you, for speaking your mind, and your heart, while going toe-to-toe with you, to contest the matter.
I suspect neither of us would have it any other way.
...it is not "perversity" that I would "defend"...
Our first and most egregious area for disagreement, in this context.
...I am defending the right of approximately 10% of our population, consenting adults, to live as everyone else lives. the manner in which people have sex is irrelevant as the "acts" performed by homosexuals are also performed by heterosexuals (not all... and not every act... but we don't question those things in regard to heterosexuals and, ultimately, what consenting adults do in their bedrooms is no one's business but theirs)...
There is some considerable merit in this perspective, although it's my perception (right or wrong) that we are dealing with 2% or 3% of the population, rather than 10%.
Frankly, I have enough trouble keeping my own socks pulled up, while walking through life, without worrying about who is sleeping with who, and what plumbing they have or use, while they're doing it.
But I DO believe that Homosexuality represents perversity, and, while I couldn't care less what two 'different' people do behind closed doors, I'm viscerally opposed to
legitimizing such behaviors in the public eye.
A mixture of live-and-let-live, with respect to private behaviors, and steel-hard opposition to legitimizing such atypical behaviors, in broad daylight.
..."Perversity" is a value judgment not applied to heterosexual couples unless an act is either non-consensual or all participants ante not adults. The same standard should be applied to gays...
Again, that fundamental and egregious (and, quite probably, irreconcilable) difference between us, regarding this definition. So long as this difference does not substantively impair collaboration on other unrelated issues, it's all good in the hood.
...With respect to marriage equality, no one chooses who they are physically attracted to. a gay man could no more be attracted to a woman than a straight man can be attracted to another man. you don't wake up in the morning and say "oh.. .i think i'll fight off my attraction for men today". nope. how you're hot-wired is how you're hot-wired...
Agreed. It makes no difference to the definition of 'perversity', however, nor the visceral and adverse reaction that vast numbers of 'normal' people have to such perversity.
...that said... marriage has been held, in Loving v Virginia, to be a fundamental right. The law requires that a fundamental right cannot be abridged without a substantial governmental interest. And a gay couple is entitled to the same equal protection under the law that everyone else is entitled to...
Agreed. Given the recent collection of opinions and rulings, continued opposition to this nightmare will require a re-interpretation of law which shifts perception of Homosexuality into the negative spectrum, at-law, in a detriment-to-society sort of mode, before anything can be done to build upon that revised and more negative perception. Whether any of that can be realized depends upon the nature of the next couple of Administrations, beyond the Obama Years.
...There is no more argument for discriminating than there was in defense of segregation...
Disagree.
Segregation as based upon skin color.
Prejudice against Homosexuals is based upon thousands of years of history and social and religious proscriptions.
I perceive it to be the height of cavalier and arrogant thought, to believe that thousands of years of well-deserved proscription can be overturned in a matter of a few years, and in the face of such strong opposition on the part of so large a part of the population.
...We do not make our citizens second class citizens because they offend someone else's sensibilities...
We proscribe those who sexually molest children, even in a (
personal, not legally operative) consensual setting.
We proscribe those who engage in sexual bestiality.
We proscribe those who engage in incest.
We proscribe those who engage in necrophilia.
We proscribe those who engage in a great many modes of sexual behaviors which offend the collective sensibilities of society.
Until very recently, we proscribe those who engaged in Homosexual behaviors.
...I'd also suggest that, as a member of a minority that comprises approximately 1.5% of the population of this country (i.e., jews) that it behooves us to defend everyone else's rights...
Generally speaking, I am in the same corner that you are, with this observation.
It is simply that I cannot join you (or your colleagues) in the context of Homosexuality.
I will not stand up for the rights of the perverse, to act perversely, to the extent where I will support the public legitimizing of such perversity.
That is, indeed, a value judgment.
One that was backed-up by Law, until very recently.
Opponents of Homosexual Activism are seeking a return to that recent (
and, to a lesser extent, still operative) state of affairs; believing that recent changes are not in the best interests of society at-large, and believing that we weaken ourselves by doing so.
...that is not Godwin and I'm not suggesting anything nazi-esqe in this...
Agreed. Twice agreed. Thrice agreed.
...(i hate when people do that)...
Amen.
And, of course, it gets in the way of whatever intelligent discourse there is to be had, in exploring such an emotionally volatile issue.
...But i am suggesting that things that don't offend others are not in need of protection.... which is why we need to step it up and defend the rights of everyone.
I'm familiar with Pastor Niemoller's admonition myself, and am a big believer in the message conveyed by that admonition, and the warning that it sounds.
Those who (a) oppose the public legitimizing of Homosexuality, and (b) understand Niemoller's mesage, will best serve their Opposition cause by undertaking such opposition reluctantly, as a sad necessity, without resorting to viciousness or denigrating behaviors.