Shall we take this outside?

I enjoy some friendly banter as much as the next person.
But sometimes I wonder if I am the only member at USMB who doesn't enjoy insulting people as sport on this forum? And who doesn't find intelligent, civil, and non-juvenile give and take on interesting topics to be boring? I have trouble respecting those who deliberately try to derail or shut down threads by piling en masse into an otherwise good thread with personal insults, sound bites, assigned short one liners, to make sure no reasonable discussion occurs.
At the same time I have had some good discussions here at USMB but they are pretty rare. Evenso, I have made some seriously good friends here so it can't be all bad.
No, Foxfyre, you're not the only one. There are two of us.
The one thing I cannot understand about USMB and a lot of other message boards is the mentality that the person who doesn't agree with MY point of view is stupid, ignorant, brainwashed, indoctrinated, even evil. We see it in our society that those who disagree with a person declare him/her unfit and unacceptable and try to destroy him/her by banning from campus, aggressive, even violent protests, barring from ability to enjoy a meal at a restaurant or an evening at the theater, threaten or attack his/her employers, customers, suppliers, advertisers, etc.
This is played out throughout our society these days including these message boards. And to me who was raised and educated to understand and consider all points of view, and use logic and reason to separate the bullshit or wrong headedness from the good stuff, as the only way to truly be educated, this is a dangerous and even evil thing.
the person who doesn't agree with MY point of view is stupid, ignorant, brainwashed, indoctrinated, even evil.
Please don't kid yourself that it is any different on my side of things. The speeches by highly controversial speakers and shock jocks like Milo are security concerns, not censorship.
The horrible things I hear about "kneelers" and even that kid Hogg are just as nasty, perhaps moreso, than asking someone to leave a restaurant. Which happened how many times?
Just don't play a victim with that stuff. It is equally vicious on "your" side, although I don't really like to put it that way. I don't see you as the opposition; we just have different ideas.
I have good reason to express my opinion of 'kneelers' and such because when I pay a lot of money to attend a football game, I want to be able to enjoy the game including the presentation of the flag and the singing of the National Anthem and what that stands for and not be subjected to anybody's disrespect of those because of their political views.
The only 'security concerns' related to anybody's expressed opinion are when somebody of authority promotes or urges civil disobedience, violence, denial of rights, or malicious attacks on the 'politically incorrect.'
Milo or Hogg or anybody else should never be blocked from accepting an invitation to speak. When I was in college we had every sort of person from extreme right to extreme left and everything controversial in between speaking on campus from time to time. And our professors often assigned some of those speeches for 'homework' and then we would discuss the content--not the person but the content--of the speech in class though the professor was very careful to facilitate the discussion and did not take a personal position on it. It was a terrific education experience and taught us how to do critical analysis/thinking and consider all pros and cons as nothing else could.
I enjoy a good give and take in an interesting topic whether that be AGW/climate change or abortion rights or any socioeconomic policy etc. I might do some push back on somebody attacking me personally or misrepresenting or mischaracterizing my argument, but I like to think I am not guilty of trying to keep somebody from expressing their opinion or attacking anybody personally if I disagree with him/her.
And I like to think it is possible to demonstrate that philosophy on a message board.
Which is really off topic re what happened to USMB recently. But I see those who are determined to see that no civil give and take happens to be far more dangerous to USMB's health than I see a very occasional bad gateway situation.