What does a Woman want in a Man?

[Wyatt earp]

Wake quit being so melo dramatic guys have been asking this question for a 100,000 year's

She will come to you, she will have your baby and when she turns around 35 years old, she will become a psycho, most all do.

 

[Bonzi]

Nobody mentioned money?

Talking personality.
...although I do find that men with $ have terrible personalities (or at least a personality I don't like...)

But they don't have trouble finding women. Many gals will overlook a lot of bad qualities if they can live large.

eh......... would you want to marry a woman like that?
the again, if a woman wants $ and man wants a trophy I guess they are both shallow and materialistic and it's a good fit.

Unfortunately, they seem to be in the majority.

Well if I were a guy, I would not want a woman that is only interested in money.
Points to misplaced priorities and personality flaws.

 

[Wyatt earp]

Nobody mentioned money?

Talking personality.
...although I do find that men with $ have terrible personalities (or at least a personality I don't like...)

But they don't have trouble finding women. Many gals will overlook a lot of bad qualities if they can live large.

eh......... would you want to marry a woman like that?
the again, if a woman wants $ and man wants a trophy I guess they are both shallow and materialistic and it's a good fit.

Unfortunately, they seem to be in the majority.

Well if I were a guy, I would not want a woman that is only interested in money.
Points to misplaced priorities and personality flaws.

love is weird been talking to a few old classmates on FB, I never knew how much those girls loved me. I always was looking for the dream girl. Its kind of cool when you are at our age and with the internet, honesty comes out at the time I never thought I had a chance with them that's why I was just friends with them

 

[MarathonMike]

If you mean American women in their 20s then you have my sympathies. The majority of them (not all) have been programmed to seek out the most obvious, shallow arrogant guys and look past the quiet guys. That's ok, your job is to find the ones that that see beyond that. Not easy at all but worth the wait because nothing will affect your life more (other than having kids) than the woman in your life.

 

[Moonglow]

<sigh> Yet again, I'm chopped liver.

On rye?

 

[Moonglow]

Without money, relationships don't work....

 

[September]

-Demonic yet angelic
-Unfathomable beauty
-Excels in mind, body and spirit
-Superior genetics
-Godlike abilities
-Intoxicatingly seductive and manipulative
-Ambitious and powerful
-Exciting and adventurous​

 

[boedicca]

I can only speak for myself but here is my list:

Manliness
Courage
Industry
Resolution
Self-Reliance
Discipline
Honor

 

[TrinityPower]

You didn't ask me but here goes anyway:

Look for someone who has the same interests and passions that you do. Follow what interests you and a women who have same interests will be doing what you are doing. Look for a woman to be a friend first. You said you wanted someone to share interests, activities, philosophy of life...look for that. Looking for love right off will just find you in uncomfortable situations and make you feel awkward. Love should come easy. Here are some lines of a country song to guide you

If it don't come easy, you better let it go.
'Cos when it don't come easy, there's no natural flow.
Don't make it hard on your heart, you might be better off alone,
If it don't come easy, you better let it go, yeah.

 

[Muhammed]

Nobody mentioned money?

If you flaunt money then all you will attract is disingenuous gold diggers.

 

[rdean]

We know what most right wing men want in a woman.

 

[Iceweasel]

We know what most right wing men want in a woman.

A brain, unlike the left.

 

[Muhammed]

We know what most right wing men want in a woman.

My penis.

 

[Uncensored2008]

My penis.

Which is coincidently what most leftwing men want in themselves....

 

[koshergrl]

Why the hell am I not on that list? I'm offended and am thinking about suing.

 

[Muhammed]

Why the hell am I not on that list?

Because you're a dog wearing a silly doggie sweater.

 

[koshergrl]

Why the hell am I not on that list?

Because you're a dog wearing a silly doggie sweater.

That's got you all excited, doesn't it....sealyboob has the hits for Mylo, too. You're in for some fierce competition.

 

[koshergrl]

The hOts that is. Stupid smart phone.

 

[Katzndogz]

Go down to the bookstore and buy a dozen romance books, including the newest hot one, Fifty Shades of Gray that get some serious physical romance going.

What women want is to be kidnapped by pirates, tied up in the Captain's quarters and brutally raped repeatedly. Or, held for ransom in the Shiek's tent where she becomes the favorite of the harem and is forced to give blow jobs every night.

Not that women really want to be treated like that. They want to at least think that the man is capable of treating them like that and his lionheart beats just below the surface.

I wanted a man that didn't cry, wear tinted contact lenses, have soft hands, and if I did beat the crap out of him, he paid well for it.

 

[ChrisL]

Hey, please don't try to laugh.

We're talking personality. How exactly should a man be and behave around a woman?

What exactly is a woman looking for when she's looking for a potential mate, when it comes to personality? I want to be a gentleman, but I don't think that's enough.

You are women, and I make no attempt to assume what it is you have and do search for in men.

In my personal and work life, I am gentle, kind, respectful, hard-working, funny, and mature. Also, bashful, shy, tends to over-think, and can be anxious at times.

What is it personality-wise that attracts you to a man?

What was it about him that made him worthy of your time?

I want to be more confident and manly, but remain gentle, kind, and tender with my patients and potential mate. Would a woman prefer a man who is warm, not shy when it comes to focusing on and talking with her, and is truly loving of people? More than some of these traits I have possessed for quite some time [everyone evolves and matures over time], but I feel I suffer on some of them when ground down, tired, and stressed. I want to know better how exactly I should model myself when it comes to being a man worthy of a woman's time and attention, and possible love.

Could you share with me what you honestly look for in a man, or what in his personality attracted you to date and marry him? I want to fall in love with a loving young lady, treat her with love and attention and respect, and truly bond with her at a deep, emotional level. I am not the kind of man who wants to be with a woman just for sex. No, I want a loving best friend to keep dating and going on adventures with, even after we say our vows. I don't want to just be in love with Her, but be in a strong and lasting relationship with her. Life just feels empty without a loved one to spend time with.

You've undoubtedly been in relationships before me, and I put far more stock in what a woman thinks, than what some men think, who more often than not are more interested in lust, than emotional love. Words of advice here could definitely affect my future. Please help this young guy out, yeah?

MeBelle
skye
Gracie
Bonzi
BlueGin
Wolfsister77
AquaAthena
AngelsNDemons
candycorn
boedicca
ChrisL
emilynghiem
Jeremiah
Againsheila
AyeCantSeeYou
koshergrl
BlackSand
Coyote
Foxfyre
Sarah G

I think it all depends on the woman, Wake. It depends on many, many different things. Honestly, I can't really pinpoint exactly what it is that attracts me to certain men. It is definitely more of a "personality" thing than an appearance thing though. Back in high school, I had a wicked crush on this guy who was not really very good-looking at all, but he was sooo cool, you know? He rode a motorcycle and was BAD ASS. Lol. Anyways, nowadays I look for something a bit more. Pure physical attraction is not enough to base a serious relationship on. You really do need to have at least some things in common and a kind of rapport or connection with said person. Just my opinion. Good luck to you!