Humans are great experimenters. We learn by various means, mostly social, but a solitary human can learn by using trial and error methods, just like other animals do. We adopt what works, we discard what doesn't work. We, if we are members of even the smallest social grouping, learn from each other as well as learning from our individual experiences.
Before we developed language we (humans collectively) learned by observation and we learned (as individuals) by classical and operant conditioning methods (delivered by others external to us as individuals, usually parents). We learned what helped us to survive as individuals and as collectives.
After language and writing were invented humans could more effectively share the collective knowledge gained from trial and error methods. And importantly we could develop codes of behaviour that were recorded. Having them recorded meant that they could be revised and improved as necessary. What worked was recorded, what didn't work was extinguished. What worked was venerated and passed down from generation to generation, being amended as necessary.
What guides us is the biological imperative. It guides us as individuals. In societies the biological imperative drives individuals and given societies are collectives of individual humans it follows that arrangements must be made to manage the behaviours that are driven by the biological imperative.
First of all, thank you for the thoughtful post. It seems like you are the final remaining voice of reason on your side of the original argument.
Ok, so this 'behavioral selection process' that you propose and I must accept as common sense... driven by Biological Imperative... does it not boil down to a natural process? Doesn't it seek natural ends? Aren't there aspects of the various behavioral codes which are always selected?
I don't pretend to know what all of the aspects of behavioral code that will always be selected. I still maintain that all people will always seek freedom (if society doesn't give it to them, they will eventually take it or die trying, at which point you could say they are truly free). And those who seek to deny others' freedom will have to continue to grow in power to keep control. We know where this ends. Eventually there is no more power and there is nowhere to go but down. Tyranny is forever temporary.
Why do I think that people will always seek freedom?
Freedom affords one the ability to control one's destiny. People are naturally mistrustful, especially when it comes to people outside of their genetic circle and even more so of those outside of their community (people they see every day). As the past 87 pages have shown here, people are generally most trusting of themselves. So why hand over your destiny to another person? Why would you think that they have your best interest at heart? Demagogues and other snake-oil salesmen can sometimes infiltrate our hearts and convince us that they are truly acting in our interest (and may in some cases be), but if we did not believe that they were acting in our interest we would not
choose to defer to them.