Holy smokes. I cannot believe that you are still hateful towards the south for a civil war that happened LOOONG before you were even born. Lol. If somebody erects a monument to ANY veteran, you wouldn't find me tearing it down that is for SURE.
Nope, Don't hate the south. Quit trying to put words in other peoples mouth that aren't true. When you have to lie and make personal attacks to defend your position it ruins your position. I'm fine honoring them. Honoring General Lee when he said to put away the icons of the Civil war and move on. Honor them how most troops get honored. I'm also fine not elevating them above 99% of our service members (all who did not turn against the USA).
I'm fine not putting up statues of our veterans when they joined an enemy army. It's kinda funny how the promoters of these guys always try to ignore the Civil War itself. Oh he went on to become president of this college, or went on to do these great things. But what's the statue of? Him in the uniform he wore when he spent his time trying to overthrow the USA.